Hey all.

So recently I've been wondering about the whole giving/receiving commands deal. The scenario is something like

Girl: blahblah
Me: blahblah
Girl: Get that for me.
Me:

Basically I'm wondering for cases like these, is it better to follow the command or go against it in some way. I know that it's really case specific, but I feel like there's some general rule that I should be following. If I'm always saying 'no' then girls will be turned off (I say this because a girl complained about me never giving into her).

On the other side, when is it appropriate to give commands? And how strong should they be? It's like the different of 'why dont we do x' 'come with me we're doing x'. Somewhat small different but important enough distinction between the two. There are other things I feel like I need to work on but this just popped into my mind first.