I've heard alot of people asking about NLP lately and I figured I would show one of the best examples of NLP that I have been able to find on Youtube.

This woman did an excellent job. So much so that when I watch it I get some of the feelings. Seriously, check it out it is a great example.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RfX33FgEICs

EvoJ

Sliding anchors...I don't like NLP, but I have to try this.
That evil lady...I love her.

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I actually went out with a friend of mine on friday and I told her about NLP and about the basics of it. And she agreed to be my guinea pig. I worked up her state (slowly getting her to imagine a specific emotion and what it looked like and how it felt to her.) then I tried to increase it and lower it while sliding as necessary. In the end, the anchor didn't hold and I talked to her about it and I think I know why.

(Well there are 3 possible reasons)

1. We were interupted halfway through by a waitress who asked her a question. (My HB Guinea said that it really threw her out of it)

2. I did something wrong, like tapping the anchor at the wrong times or things like that. (I honestly don't think so, but it IS possible.)

3. She did not Actually volutarily do everything I asked her to do. (this is what I think it was and I will explain.)

She told me at the end that the emotion that I invoked in her was really strong and she could feel it in the top of her stomach and she liked it alot but when I asked her to increase it she intentionally did not because she would have been uncomfortable on how that would make her feel. And then when I asked her to decrease it, she said that she tried but couldn't because she can never just drop this feeling and it lasts for a long time.

So, I think it was #3... because a person must accept and agree to go along with what you are doing by telling you about this emotion and change it as you request.

So, in the end. She said she was a willing participant... but she really wasn't because she was afraid of how it would make her feel around me. Which, I suppose was a valid thought since we are just friends. I think that this can/does work and I am almost Sure that it would have worked if I hadn't told her about it in the beginning. Though, I would have felt wrong if I didn't explain it to her.

I want to try this again, I will tell another HB friend about it and try it on her and see how well it goes.

EvoJ

like the way she anchors the feeling of adventure with her hand being closer to him.

like the way she anchors the feeling of adventure with her hand being closer to him.