At my job, there is this girl that doesn't particularly react to me. For example, all of the girls will talk to me, joke around, etc. But this one girl doesn't really care. If I try to talk to her, she will listen, give a one word answer, and that is it. Like she doesn't want to hear it. Sometimes when she sees me she'll give a quick smile or say hi, but thats about it. Meanwhile, when other guys talk to her, she'll laugh and mess around with them, but if I try, she doesn't want to be bothered almost.

I try not to let it bother me, but it still hurts because I have a crush on her, and I don't understand why I'm nothing in her eyes. And keep in mind that I never expressed interest in her to her. Never once. And I think she is the kind of girl that wants attention. For example, whenever I'm working, and I see her at the register, I see her look at me, and I look the other way. And I have a hard time looking at her because I have a crush on her. It's hard to explain. Other girls, I can look at no problem, but if I see her I can't look at her. Occassionaly I look at her so she doesn't feel like I intentionally avoid looking at her, but another reason I avoid looking at her is because I'm unsure of what to say. It is so awkard, because we NEVER talk.

I also get the feeling that when I avoid looking at her, she doesn't like it. Like she is annoyed that she isn't getting the attention she wants. I obviously have a crush towards her, but I don't care for her "I want attention" attitude which I know she has, because I feel like she treats me like I'm nothing.

Any of you ever have an awkward social situation like this?

nice bro. Girls are ten times more perceptive. Even if you think your not showing that your attracted; she knows you are or at least wants you to show it.

She treats you different because you treat her different. It sounds like she is attracted to you and is playing hard to get.

What you guys are doing is called body language. You are playing hard to get and so is she. You may not know it; but you are playing it smoothly. Now that shes hooked, u need to rope her in.

Since conversation is awkward. DONT do it. Try making some eye contact at a meeting or something and stair for 3 seconds, smile and wink. Now look for ioi's in the form of body language.

This is a very mysterious way of attracting a girl. The no words spoken kiss close. I want to hear about it.

If she gives you an ioi back like biting her lip, playing with her hair, winking back. Then make a surprised face and quickly smile, roll your eyes and turn your head. This is a cocky funny hard to get emotion. Then look back and raise your eyebrows quickly. This is to let her know u were kidding.

Then move your head in a follow me motion. (move your eyes and head to the side and raise the eyebrow closest to the door). Announce that you are going to the restroom and to excuse you out loud FIRMLY (like a man). Wait outside the door for 5min. If she comes out, don't speak any words. Look her in the eyes, move close, look at her lips, back to her eyes, then to her lips again. If she doesn't close her eyes expecting a kiss then i would be an uncles cousin.

practice body language in a mirror and go to a mall and study couples interacting, especially from distances. Really study their eye brows, lips, mouths and hands touching their face.