***Vol. 31: Gaming 9s & 10s (Braddock & Mr. M)


This is the first installment in the revamped Interview Series. As a side note, I definitely prefer this over the CDs that were being shipped in the mail. Not only do we get these faster, but it’s environmentally friendly also...GO TREE HUGGERS!

First off this interview clocks in, according to iTunes, at 1:48:31. I guess no CD’s means no time limit. This interview by Braddock and Mr. M is packed full of information, and with their Social Circle seminars kicking off and being built around gaming 9s and 10s, no two instructors are more worthy to explain 9 and 10 game. The audio quality on the disk isn’t that bad. It seems like they’re both on the phone, so you can only do so much with what you’re given.

I don’t want to give to much away, so I will only touch upon some of the material.

The interview kicks off with explaining the difference between gaming 9s and 10s and regular pick-up game. They highlight parts of game that need to be emphasized, such as sub-communication, and parts that can be put on the back burner, like bombarding her with your DHV stories.

The interviewees (if that’s a word), are then asked how they approach. They touch on a lot of things in detail. The art of pre-approaching, which I’m not use to, but glad it was brought to my attention, is genius! Braddock explains the red, yellow, green light principle, which he also explained in the “Sticking Points” interview, but he goes more in detail on how he uses it for 9s and 10s here. Mr. M lays out his bitch-shield destroyer routines and explains on the assumptions that these girls will make and how you should react or should I say, not react.

Getting access to these women is also another challenge brought on by Braddock and Mr. M. They bring on the idea of a gatekeeper, a social connector that will introduce you to 9s and 10s. They explain how to befriend these people, which may sound easy, but when explained, it has many dynamics for it to blow up in your face.

Frames are a very important piece of the puzzle and Braddock and Mr. M do not disappoint. They speak on the the popular frames in the community, but they also bring in some new ones. Braddock’s “Girls like you understand me” routine and the way it subtly demonstrates many characteristics is gold! They also put a new twist on disqualifying the target’s beauty. I’m not gonna give too much away I’ll let you guys listen for yourselves.

Throughout this interview both Mr. M and Braddock show how important a social circle is to gaming 9s and 10s. They show how you can close women at high rates by using your social circle to your advantage. Which brings us to Braddock’s monster, Slow-Burn Game. This is a whole new way to game. It just slaps cold approaching in the face! Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against cold approaching, but I believe to really find a “good/fun” girl and not just some one-night stand with beautiful titties, social circle/ slow-burn game reigns supreme. Braddock has a good explanation between the two on his blog: Braddock's Love Systems Blog

Although I just skimmed the service with this review, I hope it was informative (hopefully I won’t wake up tomorrow finding that this makes no sense). These guys have really showed me that social circle game is not to be messed with. If I didn’t live all the way in Hawaii I would definitely attend their seminar on social circle game, but until then I’ll just sit here on a beach in Hawaii under a palm tree making Corona commercials.

***Vol. 25: How To Be An Alpha Male (Braddock, Mr. M & Sheriff)


If the interview series collection were MMA fighters, this interview would easily be in the likes of champions: Fedor, Anderson Silva, or BJ Penn. Having being looked at as the base for great pick-up game, inner game has become a hot topic. Although, being an alpha male is not all of inner game, for me, it is a great majority.

This interview makes Braddock, Sherriff, and Mr. M responsible for breaking down this subject to their eager students. The interview runs approximately for 1:16:42 and the audio quality will not disappoint. The instructors don’t just explain what an alpha male is, but also, techniques that will help you become an alpha of your own. These techniques will not only help you with women, but help in all aspects of your life.
The first part of the interview discusses traits that an alpha male possesses and how wanna-be alphas differ from the pure alphas.

Traits of an alpha can probably recited by most. If you’re not most the instructors lay them out for you. It’s also a good reminder of what you should be striving for.

The wanna-bes are given a beating in this interview. The guys touch on many characteristics of an alpha male that the wanna-be tries to achieve, but in the wrong way. One of my favorite quotes came from Braddock on this subject,

“An alpha male has a healthy competitive spirit, I think, but he’s only competing with himself. So, when he succeeds, he never succeeds at other people’s expense.”

This is something that I’m very guilty of and now see that I’m continuously measuring my accomplishments to others, instead of learning from there success. I’m glad I was able to recognize it and not be blinded by, what they call, my own self-deception.

The 3 gurus emphasize staying on your purpose. This naturally creates boundaries that must be enforced. They go about how this extends out to jealousy, that if your on your passion, your purpose and you enforce your boundaries well, jealousy shouldn’t affect you. They teach listeners how to put emotion aside when jealousy arises and allow logic to take its place.

An interesting topic also covered is the idea of adopting the identity of an alpha male. From Tyler Durden to Maximus, the guys give advice on how to correctly emulate an alpha male so no one goes and starts creating a cult or slicing heads off with swords.

Also, many books are suggested for your reading pleasure. There are even Tony Robbins references in this interview.

This interview is definitely a must have. The idea of becoming a natural is always something a lot of people strive for, but I’m not about to get into the argument of natural game vs. scripted game. No matter what you’re striving for in the art of pickup, this interview will help your game. Until next time, make sure to spade and neuter your pet. GO NY JETS!