Hi everyone , First of all I want to introduce myself. I'm in my mid-twenties and been picking up girls now from the age of 16. I have used the cold approach since as long I can remember picking up girls and women in public places , streets , trams and busses , bars , etc. I only quite recently have discovered there's something as a Pick-up community and off course this all started with reading The Game.

Now I know there is a Pick-up community I would like to meet some of the guys in it so I can share my 'wisdom' and discuss with some of the more advanced members. So if any of you guys are interested in meeting someone with a decade of pick-up experience and maybe gettting some in person coaching feel free to contact me. I'm also playing with the idea to give a workshops in Belgium , so to those who want to help me host one or just want to take a Workshop in Belgium let me know.

To show all yall it's not just all word and no play I will give a short contribution on winging;

I'm sure lots of you guys are dealing with the challenge of finding a good wing and are asking yourselves if it's an advantage or disadvantage to go sarging alone:

Now I have done both but to my experience a wing in itself is not a advantage but it has some great indirect advantages.

1. It will help if you approach a group (mostly in nightlife) and you don't want to get cockblocked
2. It's a great way of getting feedback

To focus on going solo , i think it's the best way and the fastest way to becoming much better and evolving as a player. All the girls you meet give you feedback(not explicitely) and if you get feedback and you keep trying you will get a lot better at the game if you are willing to adapt. Secondly if you are willing to approach girls solo (even on broad daylight) you will never struggle with the problem of approach anxiety or struggling with finding a good opener (just use situational relevance). And third going solo is a great way of expanding your network , meeting all kinds of people ( even a wing man) and who knows even making some great friends. All of the people in my life that I find add value are a direct or indirect effect of me going out alone and talking to strangers.

I hope to get some feedback from all of you. And I would like to hear your comments.

Yours Sincerely

R.