| hey guys,
Im studying at uni this year and have made a few friends some of which i have become really close with. i live on campus and so do 3 of the people in my "main" group. one of them however, who is the only girl, lives a 5 min drive away. i met her a few months ago when she had a boyfriend so didnt try to pursue her but she recently broke up with him, so i became more flirty with her, and she seems to respond (nothing to intense, just play fighting and teasing her).
Anyway my problem is that she is now fwb with another guy in our group who, to be honest, as a much more bland personality than me and spends most of his time when he hangs out with us on instagram, snapchat etc. they "say" they don't have feelings for each other but they spend a lot of time together, e.g. she sleeps over a lot and they always walk together. But i really don't know why she chooses him rather than me. I'm not bragging or anything but I'm usually the funny one, the confident one (out of us two anyway). the reason i think she chose him was because of their initial closesness before i met them and the fact that he is slightly better looking than me, like dresses better and stuff. he is much shorter though.
they initially started sleeping together after one drunken night and ever since then they've been screwing.
my question is how do i switch this round so I'm the guy rather than him. its hard to think of a technique to use, but just for additional info, he is really not THAT interesting and not funny... I'm saying this purely because its true rather than of my jealousy. and to be honest I'm not jealous, i just have to beat him and have her.
she comes on campus most nights and hangs out with us so how can i steal her from him without being too obvious to everyone else in the group??
much appreciated
pups
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