There is a girl that I am seeing and I was talking to on the phone. She tells me "Hold on a sec...let me call you back." and then hangs up. She calls me back and I missed it because I was in another room. I then realized I've done this a few times. I thought to myself, could this used a technique or tactic used to gain attraction? I mean, it shows that your busy and not available 24hours to talk. You leave her with some mystery and possibly with additional conversation for next time you talk. Like, "Oh, I was gona tell you last night after you told me to hold on...". Any ideas?

not bad, but that could be seen as you pouting because she had to hang up on you.

i like the idea though. when she says "hold on...let me call you back", just respond with "hey i'll just call u later tonight", then hang up. and don't call. much more effective.

Well, in this istance she informed me she was in a drive though, Said, "Hold on...", and hung up with out me getting a word in. She calls back, I don't answer. I makes it seem like, Hey thats F'd up you can't do that.

this is all 101 game. you have to be careful with this because you dont want to be flakey. be busy, dont be an asshole. girls typically know when ur busy and when ur ignoring them. and when ur being real and when ur playin games.

if you want to ignore her call..then call her the next day and dont even mention the missed call. if she does, dont apologize for missing the call you were just busy and she doesnt pay you to be on call. thats a funny thing to say when they bitch u didnt pick up "what am i on call?"

and dont punish her unless she deserves it. if convo was good and she genuinely had to go for a second and actually calls you back, thats a good sign,. if shes bein a see ya next tuesday then by all means ignore that call. its very situational so use ur best judgement.
dont just ignore a girls call because u think ur a pimp or something

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Yes, if you're needing to DHV for a girl and you talk to her on the phone a LOT then it actually is a good strategy to sometimes say you have another call and you have to get it, or someone is there and you have to go, or something like that. Just don't overuse it. David D talks about this.

Rooks makes some good points here and so does Tripp. I'd just do like Rooks says and not punish her for legitimately hanging up on you, it happens, just don't let her make a habit out of it. If its just once in a while, then that's just life, as long as she calls you back, if you don't hear from her for a much longer than necessary time, then you can say you went out and left your phone, or were getting ready to go somewhere and missed the call, etc. Just make sure you have a reason if asked and that its plausable so you don't sound like you're playing games.

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