Hi everybody, i'm pretty new to this. I think i know about the world of PUA for about... 2 weeks or so. In these 2 weeks i became very interested and have read Neil Strauss his book and have spend quit some hours on the internet searching for more information. i already found tips and attitudes i can use when i am 'in the field'.
Short introduction:
From Holland (southern), 19, working student, likes guitar playing/surfing/music/girls/events/hanging out with friends/beer/girls/media
i have kissed quit some girls, but it never went further then a second date.
always the LJBF.
anywho... the story....
about 3 years ago (young kiddo's) i went to a camping with my parents and i took some friends of my with me. we all had fun and went out like every day. we went there for 2 weeks. at the end of the first week i talked to 2 girls on the dancefloor. my original target was bored but her girlfriend (with sexyblond hair) was giving me tons of IOI's. I didn't really talked to them till the last night. I forgot her name so i introduced one of my friends to her so she would tell him her name (tip!). Her name was jessica and we talked for some minutes, i walked her back to her tent, kissed her and got her phonenumber. she said it was the first time she kissed. we exchanged email and we chatted a little bit at home. there was some distance between our homes.
2 year later. i'm 18, and i became a 'vollunteer' for the introductionweek at my school because i'm a 2th years student and it's one big party! You get a group of 8/10 people were you are kind of responsable for. you're older than the 250 new rookie students so the organisation was a little bit 'cocky' and the new students looked a little up at me. on the 3th day there was a party and as i walked trough the club i danced a little with every girl that was on my pad. this is where i met the girl were this story is all about. we just danced for 5 minutes, didn't even chat and i was of to the bar. Never knew her name, but didn't care because i was after another girl that night.
begin 2007. the girl i met at the camping years ago sends me a picture over msn. it was a picture of me and the girl on my introductionweek i danced 5 minutes with. the name of the girls on the picture was Sophie.
How did jessica get this picture of me and sophie and what the ^&*@ was the link? it seemed that jessica and sophie were related. sophie showed jessica pictures of her introduction week and jessica recognised me.
i did some research on sophie and i found out that she actually the type of girl is which i adore
. i asked jessica her emailadress, and me and sophie decided to meet at the next party of our school 2 weeks from there.
the first time i met sophie i wasn't that clear in my head. the only 'clear' pictures of her were on the internet. on that party of our school we passed by eachother like 3 times and give eachother looks. I started to talk to her, she gave IOI's and (of what i heared from my friends) i kissed her. I had to leave early. In the train i got textmessages from one of my friends and sophie that she wishes me goodnight and stuff. she also textd her number. Me (and my stupid head) didn't respond.
Days later i talked to sophie on msn and convinced her to 'vollunteer' at the introductionweek as 2th year student. I was helping as well in the organisation as 3th year. this was in august. so some months passed by.
At camp i lost track of what really happend. We started on a sunday with a bbq for the crew and organisation to get to know eachother. i recognised her en sat down at the same long table with friends and organisation and started to chat with them. i catched some words. they were talking about me. i heared in a wispher 'which one is Eventic???' SOMEONE CALLED MY NAME?, i said with a loud voice and laughed to them and they all started to giggle and sophie's head became red. on that first night i didn't tried to give sophie to much atention. I mosty talked with organisation, 2nd and 3th years HB's and some friends of sophie.
The 1th official day of the camp. the day we picked up the 250 fresh students. At the end of the day we organised a themeparty in our camp. one of sophie's gf came to me and asked me i liked sophie and if i had the intensions to kiss her. i said sophie was a fun girl, we weren't in kidsschool anymore and that we would see what can happen. all the GF of sophie tried to hook me up with her. the odd thing was... she looked very shy and it looked liked she tried to avoid me. her gf's kept saying that she really liked me. Later that night i talked to sophie on a sofa and i made a move. she said that she better shouldn't. before i could say a word she already was gone.
The next day i went to 'work'. I'm such a good planner i had to work during the introductionweek. i had to work from 11 - 18 every day. this day we had a bar-tour in the city. something happend to one of sophie's gf's so she was all sad that night. when i came back with a taxi and they allready where at the camp her other gf's told her 'what a nice guy eh, eventic?!?'. her gf's told me this. i was thinking she was searching for some sort of approval. Sophie was already in her tent. Her gf's insisted i should wish her goodnight. i did and sophie and i had some smalltalk about nothing. it didn't make any sence. does she like me or not? i'm confused.
the 3th day and final night... has come to an end. didn't see anybody cause of work. i came back at the camp, showered and went to the final party at another location. sophie and her friends did there thing and i did mine. at the end of party everybody could go home exept for the organisation! we had to help till 04:00. before we were back at camp it was 05:00. bar closed. tapped some beer ourself and joined what was left of the broken freshmens and organisation and some sofa's. i tried to textmessaged sophie, but then i saw her on the sofa. situated to some other guy. she didn't recgonised me. i told 'hey, i'm textmessaging you'. she said 'how did you get my numerb?'. Later when she went to the toillet i followed her to aks her what she was doing. SUCH AN STUPID MOVE! i asked her what happend the first night, Did she liked me, was she ignoring me? She looked a tipsy. she said she liked me and that there was no problem. i took a guess and asked if she liked some other boy. she 'kind of' admitted, but i wasn't confinced. she rejoined the group and i went to bed. Later i found out from her gf's she has troubles that i kissed with her cousin years ago.
months later. party from school again. i was with some friends and sophie was there with one of her gf's who tried to hook us up. i tried to ignore her a little bit, play with her, be 'cocky funny' and went to another bar for a half an our. now it was me and my 'wingmen' and this 2set sophie and her gf. the 2set came to me and my wingmen at our table and the boys that were talking to the 2set were AMOG'd
by us.
The 4 of us went to the other bar and that is where sophie started to act 'strange' again. she disassociated from the group again and started to make fun with the barcrew at the end of the night. she just met them.
And her i am now. this last story happend 4 weeks ago. I have 'one-itis' from the girl that first liked me. i know i have to AMOG guys around her and that i have to DHV more.
What should be my next steps? she doesn't talk alot on msn. the next time i will see her is probably on the next party from school in 2 weeks from now. should i ignore her till then and behave like the alphaman at the party? should i do something in the meantime? what is wise to do at the party? Hope my story is a understandable
please give me your vision...
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