Saying no, but not ruining relationship..



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:21 am 
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Ok well I met this girl from one of my classes in college because we got paired up as partners for homework. She's not hot at all and I have no intent to do anything with her. We get along well though and shes been able to introduce me to alot of other people. Anyways I get alot of IOI's from her.

So I just get a text message from her now saying "We should chill sometime just me and you ;-)" On one hand I don't want to do anything with her, but on the other hand I don't know how to say no while still remaining friends. Even if I say "let's just be friends" I think that sounds too gay / makes it obv I won't mess with her just cuz shes not very attractive.


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PostPosted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 7:56 am 
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Man up and hit that shit!!

Just kidding... but you could hang out with her and if she trys making things physical just tell her that you like her as a friend and you don't want to risk the friendship that you have by getting romantically involved because you value her friendship so much bla blah blah that kinda thing, lol.

Or find a AFC who's always trying to get with some HB and is obv just her bitch... and ask him what she said last time he tried to get some. :wink:


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 2:19 am 
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You cant hang out because your too busy sarging, studying, doing something social. Don't avoid her because, after all, your friends. But don't ever feel you need to invest more time then you want too. You can't giver her anything that resembles IOI's.

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