In one of my classes a girl sits across from me. She keeps sending me IOI’s, but they are very subtle. She looks at me often times when I am looking away. I usually pretend not to notice; sometimes I catch her off guard and look at her right when she is staring at me.

Her legs are usually crossed, sometimes her toes and legs are pointed towards me, and sometimes they are not. There is one main problem; her boyfriend sits next to her. I need to disarm this obstacle. (Should I get a wing man to help out?). Her boyfriend is a prick.

My question in short is should I send her back IOIs or should I let her keep trying to get my attention. Should I try to get a #close during class, before class, after class. Basically how to do I take the next step in getting her to want me. (This girl knows who I am and we have talked a few times before).

PS. Should I neg her about frequently looking at me during class?

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don't try to go for a number close in your next class.

Get that eye contact with her, meet her gaze, she'll probs look away as you turn your head. But carry on anyway, if you catch the gaze, hold it and even give a cheeky wink or smile. That begins the tension. Dont worry about the boyfriend for now, just don't game her with words or flirt with her out loud.

If she gets up in class, then get up as well, go with her and just make some funny comments. who cares what, she'll laugh and she'll begin to like you. you get me? once you create enough value, (might be after a week of lessons, who knows) ask her to help you with something after class, this gives her an excuse she can tell her bf.

Go shopping, do homework, ask for a chat cos you need a woman's opinion, who cares. Once you've isolated, ignore the reason why you asked here out unless she asks. (if that makes sense.) game on my friend.

I agree with the former post and would add that the neg would be a good idea. Something along the lines of your creeping me out or stalking me with your eyes or something like that, jokingly of course.

you need to understand the difference between a sprint and a marathon. bar/club= sprint. work/school= marathon. sounds like a longer race. don't be in a hurry to find out what type of eggs she likes. lay low, she will make it clear to you that you are not seeing how much she really likes you. your calibration is off. she is only one stop on the bus route. you will know when its time to get on or off, i promise-

Ask her if she wants to go to lunch, when you get a chance.

Then take her out for pizza or something, etc.. and see where it goes from there. Just try to find something in common that you both enjoy doing or offer to mentor her in something physical, etc.. Lead, lead, lead..

You should transition from the superficial to the real as quickly as possible in my opinion. As in my opinion you're procrastinating which may end up being uncomfortable for both of you.

In my opinion you can never lose by showing interest in somebody.

I'm not a great fan of the neg school of thought, except in just a joking or teasing manner and after you've established a certain rapport with someone. After all it can be easily misunderstood as just being an asshole. It can work in certain situations and with certain girls to break through bitch shields, etc.. but it's something I rarely have to do initially.

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I have always agreed with what Starbuck just said, that the neg can be passed off as you just being an asshole. therefore, is cocky funny alright even if the chick is not a bitch but treats you like she is your older sister?

C & F is ALWAYS good. It flips two different attraction switches in women. One is the fact that girls LOVE confident men, because those men tend to be the leaders. The other is making the women laugh. Girls LOVE that too. Negs work best on 9's and 10's, because they are hit on constantly, but C & F works great on pretty much all girls.

Yeah that's one of those exceptions I was talking about.

If a chick is treating you like she's your older sister, and she isn't, she needs to be negged or kissed immediately to bring her back down to reality..

Damn I'm afraid I've gotten so old I forgot what it feels like to have a woman (of childbearing age) treat me like she's my older sister.

When you get past about 35 or 40 women really stop playing the bullshyt games they played when you were younger. They know that shyt don't fly with a guy that's seen it all already. In fact they sort of get a seriousness about them they didn't have when you were younger.

I like to tell people when I was young and had a rock hard on all the time I could barely buy any (just kidding). But now that I'm older, etc.. the hot chicks seem to come out of the woodwork. Go figure. I haven't decided if it's because I pay more attention now, I have a significantly greater income, or because they just like grandpa. Although I suspect it's a combination of the latter.

Hey maybe it's because they think since it takes a little more work to keep it up for long periods of time (drug free I might add), I must eat more snatch or something. Yeah, maybe some truth to all that.

Women are crazy. And the younger they are the crazier they are. Remember you heard it here first.

One thing that's not in doubt.. They like older men. Even when it's a stupid idea. You know the whole emotional creature thing. If they're young and their emotions say do it, they do it. That's why you have to be the logical creature.

And buy yourself a cat, if you've never had one. There are many similarities..

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They like older men. So true, fortunately for a couple of us, lol.

lol thanks guys