There are plenty and ill keep updating as I see more.
1. The M3 model and Mystery Method is NOT the only way to pick up women...Its just a guide not even rules. Realise the fundamentals, you talk to someone, build attraction, gain rapport with that person, get physical with that person and finally fuck them silly. Thats all it is, the rest either makes it easier to learn or isnt even necessary.
2. Overthinking will kill you in the field. Go out and just enjoy a convosation, you cant plan what your going to say word for word! Just make sure you can dump some attractive qualities into your speech.
3. Stop thinking PU is it. Its orginally a way to model 'naturals' so go out and start becoming more natural than mechanical. There is alot of stuff out there on this.
4. Negs. The purpose of A1 is to Raise your value above theirs so they will invest time in you. If you have high value do you need to neg? Its just makes life easier but dont stress out if you cant think of any. The chances are it wont criple your set if you dont neg, there not reallly that important. Also if you use a neg you really should be lowering her value then raising it again not just lowering. Somthing like "I love your goofy hat you look so dorky. In a cute, charming way" Negs only increase the gap quickly from your value to theirs. You have time.
5. Openers: NOT THAT IMPORTANT. I guess cus its the 1st thing you really learn about alot of hype is made about it. IT DOES NOT REALLY MATTER. Dont freak out if your opener is bad. Open with whatever you want. Remember its purpose is to just open a conversation, thats about it. Just remember the key points. 1) have more energy than the set 2) try not to telegraph intrest to them.
6. Storytelling. KEEP IT A SIMPLE STORY. You do not want a good story (although i donst hurt to tell a few). Just remember that storytelling is a way to show your personality to them. But if your audience are more interested in the story than you, its not good for your sarge. Save your good storys when your comfort building not in your DHV.
7. AA
Personally I think AA is a bit of a self furfilling prophicey, I honestly cant remember being nervous that often to approach women before I was informed what AA was. Just relax, have fun and have a convo with a person stop thinking about all the shit you have to say acording to the method just talk and while your talking be like 'hmm ok ill just say some cool stuff about how awsome i am now'. Take it easy! Your out to enjoy life!
8. 3 second rule.
I used to use the 3 second rule, i just made me more nervous, put me under unesseary pressure and it became a personal battle to fight that and act cool. Although its an excellent way to overcome AA point 7 helps with this better than the 3SR. Again just relax! Stop over thinking, it doesnt matter if you forget to neg her or forget to push pull. The chances are you will be quite sucessful anyway if your just a charming, funny and bit a of an asshole.
9. Women
NOT all women are social experts. There are afc hbs out there and almost none of them know the amount of social dynamics you guys know! Ive encountered lots of women who will get nervous when talking to a guy, dont shit test you, dont have a bitch sheild etc. You have the upperhand and you know what to do. What'u nervous about?
10.
Its not about being better than her its about eventually equalling out on her.
You start your set. You proove you have more value. Now you let her catch up to you. Equal? cool. Now you both have equal value and know you like each other. Start getting comfortable with them and then go make some good sexy time!
11. Comfort & trust 'stage'
You know she likes you and shes knows you like her. Do you still need to make you seem more attractive? Your already the thing on her mind in that moment just start getting to know each other. Thats part of the reason you will find very little 'canned goods' for this stage. Its simple, so simple an afc can do it. Just talk and let the convo wonder, you no longer have to lead either! let her talk and you can just nod and agree. But dont forget to KINO soooo important. Otherwise she will not get turned on and lose attraction. If you can try to keep to more sexual conversations to avoid any misconceptions of what your intentions are.
12. Buying drinks/Investment.
Girls will usually wait for the man to invest first into a relationship as they will also invest alot into the relationship later on. So when you know that shes into you and not going to just use you. Buy her a drink, get her flowers and take her to nice dinners (if its a LTR or mLTR) but also go that extra mile by taking her out on fantastic dates, spontaious things that a PUA would do. I advise if your making a mLTR or a LTR take it easy on the amazing dates, if its too common you may find it hard to keep up the pace!
13. IOI's
My opinion for this is: every posotive response i get is an ioi. Although IOI can mean attraction, its really what it says it is. An indicator of interest. So be warned there ive been caught out when i acted on iois when the girl wasnt ready yet.
14. Girls moods aka Buying temp. aka horniness aka receptiveness to you. etc
Weve all been told that a sarge typically takes 7-10 hours. What most of us dont really absorb in that is the 'typically'. But heres TD's perspective on it. Say a woman is an oven (lol) and that shes been off all day but you wana roast your turkey! No no! The turkey wont cook in a cold oven you will just get a cold turkey! So you have to warm the oven up, some ovens warm up quickly especially when your using really good gas (words sugestive meanings kino etc) others take a while say 7 to 10 hours. But the wierd thing is when the oven is out on the town lots of people and things are warming the oven. Other potential loser turkeys wana get roasted! So heres what one can do to turn their cold sad floppy turkey into a shinny golden jive turkey. You can wait. Let the other losers warm the oven till the temp is just right. Jump in there and be just that more of a turkey and end up roasting your turkey in the perfect tempreture and maybe get to EAT some nice dinner. Brush up on anti-amogs.
15. Smile. Short and simple this one. Dont just smile, smile with your eyes project that friendlyness!![/u]
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