i met a chic at school, we hung out a few times, but not really. i kinda like her, but i dont see anything special, she wud pretty much be just a sunday nite lay. today she askes me to bring her ice cream, as i was in the ice cream shop. I declined! i told her she is not on the list and i dont know her well enuff. i mean i dont really care about her but im wondering, had this been an hb9, should i have gotten it for her? i know buying drinks at the club is a NO NO, but somthing like this. im really not sure, similarly any other type of favour, eg doing their laundry or buying them tampons...

A little help please?

I don't know..

How did she know you were in the ice cream shop? She's probably testing you trying to judge your interest.

You want her to do your laundry, polish your knob real good, etc..? Get her some f...in' ice cream next time..

Chocolate and ice cream.. Chick magnets for sure.

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=4ufa-q7DcWM

ummmmmmm, ok that sounds interesting. we were on da fone, and i was like hey i gotta go to da ice cream shop. but i honestly think i came off like an asshole. NOTE TO SELF, get the ice cream! i think i sorta fucked this one up LOL o well, 3.4 billion more women to go

If you've 'lost' the girl because you refused to buy her ice cream then fck her. That sounds really bizare, I think you've taken this too far.

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

You made the decision you did because we have been so ingrained with making our hospitality hard to come by, in-order to elevate and maintain value, but you said you've hung out with her a few times, by now I would hope youve established your value. Buying the girl some icecream, wouldnt have hurt you. I would have, but i would also 1- made her beg and 2, make her tell me she loves after i give her the ice cream. As a community we are making alot of mistake by being dogmatic, I love that that show on VH1 has busted open some of the old-over gamed material. Some fresh minds and a little common sense will improve all of us.

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CHASE

well, this is how i recovered (sorta) i told her that i was just kidding and i really couldnt come over cuz i was mving furniture(all true, but if i wanted to go i could have lol)she seem to hav bought it n i made her promise me that we wud go out for ice cream next week...not all lost i suppose

man u should have gotten her some icecream but not until You had a candid sexual discussion about icecream
Involve cherries, strawberries whip cream, banana's, etc.

the convo should've have gone something like this.
Girl: Hey could you bring me some icecream
You: Ah!! So u like icecream huh(say it smoothly )
Girl: yeah i like cream i like vanilla(or whatever she says)
You: Vanilla well thats a good icecream..
You: do u like strawberries
Girl: yeah i like strawberries
You: Ah ok i see hmm and Whip cream
Girl: yeah i like whip cream
You: Hmm Well I know u like strawberries but how about bannanas do u like bannanas?(While ur saying Bannanas u adjust your junk Don't grab yourself put ur thumbs in your pocket and give a slight pelvic thrust forward while giving her a smirk)
if u said this right the girl should laugh
You: (Pause look at her shocked) Whoa U Sick freak!!! I'm talking bout icecream. Stop thinking about that all the goodness down there look me in my eyes.
You: I'll tell u what I'm going to get this icecream an I'll u call u later.

When she gets over your place u want too make some moves to be licking that icecream off her neck and body

Lastly don't let the so called PUA rules overcome rationale thoughts
I saw opputunities. All u saw was I'm NOT PAYING!!! I'll look like a chump

you've actually hung out with this girl a few times its not like u just met her like i said you could have used this situation to your advantage
Next time if getting icecream comes up. U could easily turn the topic sexual

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Effort surpasses Talent, but of course I already have Talent I'm just putting Effort on Top of that

SouthernCross ur making me want some Icecream now

Blackstallion had u played ur cards right and been on ur game and not just flat out rejected like u did U could of probably had this

<img src=http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A9iby6D1GQFHS ... liWhip.JPG>

The FAMOUS WHIPPED CREAM BIKINI

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So u think you can handle this?

WHIPPED CREAM BIKINI's Those are DELICIOUS!!!!!

That's what I'm talkin' about!!!!

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Effort surpasses Talent, but of course I already have Talent I'm just putting Effort on Top of that

Agreed, I would have gotten it but not without some sort of playful sexual indications and possibly some sort of trade off i.e. I'll get desert you get diner/lunch/snack etc.

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~Surreal

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

yo guys THANKS ALOT! i think this is a hole in my game. i NEVER pay, or buy presents or anything like that. infact i have a reputation for being a cheapo. maybe i shud loosen up my hold on the wallet. but i never wanna b considered a chump who girls use to get to the cash.(my family is pretty wealthy, and i think girls may consider me an eager target to use and abuse) but yea ur rite, i shudda turned it a little sexual during our fone convo, n wen i got to her place continue the duttyness. o well, the thing about chics is there is always anothre 1 rite around the corner.

^^ It's just two dollar ice cream I would have done it myself. But like everyone already said just turn it into a sexual conversation before buying it. Aww the things I've done to other girls with ice cream.