"Just Be Yoursefl".. I've been hearing that a lot the last couple of months from people. My friends, my sister etc. It's like no one accepts that I've changed when it comes to women or even changed in general. My sister "tells" me that I "change" when I'm around women that I just have to "be" yourself.. Well obviously "being myself".. didn't work.. I now know that. Be myself okay.. let me go back to the shy insecure type of guy I was.. God it just pisses me off that people I know don't accept me changing for the better. My friend laughed at me when he saw "Way Of The Superior Man" sitting on my desk. Yet he can't even get the balls to ask a girl for her number.. or even go up and talk to a random girl at a party. I talk to everybody now.. guys and girls.. all the time.. just being a social guy.. I'm busting down these walls.. I'm feeling better about myself, I'm eating better and working out to get in the best shape I can. I know I still have a few sticking points.. and I hope if I continue coming here to share my experiences and maybe gain some insight on my sticking points I know I'll be a better person overall. I believe that picking up for me has always been about being socialable with PEOPLE not just women, but people... anyway I'm done with my rant.. now time for a sandwich..later guys

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"It's not who I'm underneath, but what I do that defines me"-SPAM Begins

Ya, i totally understand how that feels. what shuts up the guys is saying, "ohhh, i'm such a dork, i can pickup and have sex with women while you jack off." or say, "ha, typical looser talk."

and as for the girls, forget what they say, there is 3.4 billion of them at your disposal.

OR, just make your new self become yourself, after a while they forget.

No kidding! I have been getting that exact line "just be yourself". We allready are ourself, making changes is not a bad thing at all. If making changes is for the better go ahead. Let your buddies know that there are two important factors in life that make people happy which are Surivival and Replication...







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