hey guys, first post here.

have any of you started the game after highschool was over and thought to yourself...

"Man, if only I knew what I do know about venusian art I would have been able to hook up with my highschool crush and even more than that back then..."

well, I need advice, even if that didn't really apply.


I've been at college for two years now, a college that's 9 hours from home and away from the girl I played around with but didn't end up going anywhere really except LBJF. My HSSH was a year younger than me, and thus a grade lower than me, so she just left for her first year in august.

At the time, I had one-itis for her, but since I left for school, I've gotten over her and have managed to #close and kclose with girls here on a regular basis at misc. parties and even fclose on good nights... my hssh plays field hockey for her school and her school is coming to a nearby university to play there team in a few weeks.

I plan to go see her play and talk/catch up on old times. It will be only the third time in two years we've been able to actually take some time out and talk face to face.

SOO with all that being said, I'm completely positive I don't have one-itis with her, she's an HB7.5 at best and being able to pull HB8's and HB9's after the fact is what will keep me from thinking about her. But wouldn't it be cool to hook up with your hssh ?

I'm concerned that if we meet again that I'll end up back as LJBF. How would I be able to avaoid that with the (bias, if you will) I've got on her?




thanks so much
CLz

heres wat you do, play her like a new pick up. dont get to talking about how you used to be great friends and yada yada yada. use ur new found capabilities

wiggy's right on. start over. you're a different person now. you should def be cocky/funny and show her how you're an alpha male now. you're a sex object. not a friend. in the words of ryan reynolds, "you don't wanna go to the friend zone. if you feel yourself going there, walk away."

you need to get her attraction, win her teammates over, neg her, and don't start giving her ioi's until you've gotten at least three or four from her. keep the ratio 1:2. for every two ioi's, she can have one. you're rewarding her for good behavior.

now, move to another location with just you and her. once you feel she's realized that she missed out on a great guy in hs, then you can begin to build comfort. get a convo going, then establish a connection.

now at this point, it's up to you to decide whether she's into you or not. don't over think it, and don't pussy out. this is the point where you have to kiss her. good luck, work on your game, and stack your routines. make sure you win her friends over. and make sure you have the material. treat this like a test. you want an a. so study your ass off.

-the doc

thanks guys, I was so focused on being automatically put back into LJBF since I've been there with her before that I forgot nearly 2 years have passed since I was there, I'm WAY different now.

So I'll take your advice, pretend she's just an HB7 I met at a party and start sarging.

thanks again