ok so tonight i am at a party with a HB blonde who is a 8.5/9. There were a few guys who were all over here all night so i decide that i should take my chance and go for it. I talk to her for a little buidling some attraction and i think its going very well, she is all over me giving me IoIs and then the next thing i know she pulls back and starts talking to another guy. I decide that i should play the same card as her and completly ignore her, this works perfectly and she comes crawling back to me and litlerally sits in my lap. At this point i think that i have this in the bag. I stand up with her against the wall and tell her wow i am trying so hard to not kiss you right now, then she says something like im kinda bored, so i respond with what do you need i can help you out, just let me know. She says she will be right back and then comes back and says that she wants to go back to her soroity house, I say ok, ill walk you back. On the way back she says that the party was boring and that it wasnt much fun, so i pretend to be a little offended by the comment and act like it what ever i wasnt here to try and impress you(which i didnt really say). Then she says that she is going inside and im like ok what ever, i felt like i played the game pretty well but she was just so confusing to me that i didnt know what to do next. If some one can help me out here and tell me where i went wrong that would be great, or what i should do next to keep here guessing what she should do next because i still feel like i have a chance with he. ( i appologize for the spelling of some words if i messed up). Thanks for the help guys.

don't tell a chick ya 'trying hard not to kiss her'.....just fucking kiss her!!!

did u kino? were you holding hands when walkin her home? Be aware of fake IOI's hot girls usually give off and wait for the real ones

in responce to above i think that i should have just gone in for the kiss but i didnt want to seem to needy. As far as the IoIs, i know she was giving them off becuase she was sitting in my lap and later had her hands around my hips and rubbing my back. I for sure gave her kino, i had my hands around her and was holding on to her hips. Im still at a loss as to where i messed this up?

maybe you forgot to phase-shift...

You didn't attract her enough, sitting on your lap for a few minutes is only the beginning, you should have been playfully teasing her and comforting her a while more. She obviously picked you, not you picking her. She had other guys all around her and felt needed, wanted, and loved. While you did all the right things by talking to her, you didn't set yourself aside from the crowd. Remember that. Then, instead of saying stupid shit like, "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you.", you should have moved her to an isolated part of the party and kissed her. End of story.

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LMFAO!!! at ice. I still think the pua show is still fun to watch. but anyways like the above you should have isolate her then went in for the kiss

yea man last episode in monday, i have to DVR it because i have work

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Well i think his first mistake was telling her that line, "im trying so hard not to kiss you right now." I mean especially when her responce to that is im bored. When you use that line and anything other than no dont kiss me comes out, you make your move. Then on the walk back to the sorority house you should have tried to bounce somewhere else like a coffee shop or something to get some 1 on 1 time. Something like "hey you wanna grab some coffee" or anything you know is open in the area at the time close by to get her 1 on 1 and out of a comfortable surrounding like her sorority house. You should have pulled the trigger, but there were also other things you could have done. To me it seems as she was in control, and you were the eager guy to follow her.

thanks for the insight guys, wow..there is so much that i should have done that i didnt even realize i could have. My next question is where should i go from here, i know that i will for sure see her again and im not sure exactly how i should play this one.

I would try to get out somewhere public and neg her a bit. Maybe go bowling, or something like that. Then you can neg her if she loses or wins. Get her guard down a bit, and bounce to somewhere quieter to grab a bit to eat or something. Nothing to fancy. Then from there I would try to build a lil more attraction with her while you are eating by using some gambits that will make her look into your eyes. Then on the way back kino a bit more, and move in for a K close before you drop her off. This is something that has worked for me on a D2, but feel free to adapt it to what ever you have in your area.

You know the game, while i was reading i was like wow this guy needs to try and kiss close then bam thats what your post said you did, but from this line i read above you didnt phase shift. a caveman doesnt doesnt care if he comes off as needy, if she rejects you freeze her out. most the other posters covered everything else, and you should have bounced to some place else with her and taked control of the situation after the party. but that one line, where she said the party was lame, i would have taken that as her saying she wanted to make the rest of her night more interesting and you needed to drop a line like "well now we dont have anyone else to hold us back, whats stopping us from making this the best night of our lives." then you could have used her own words to trap her, if you advance on her and she pushes you back, "I thought you wanted this night to be more interesting" and you should have phase shifted. Your playing it too safe and bordering on one-itis with this girl, remember in order to succeed you need to be willing to lose. GO FOR IT

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Ya that sounds like the perfect opportunity to bounce. after she said she was bored you could have said "well lets get the hell out of here and make this a fun night!" instant date baby! but sounds like you were on top of your game for the most part so good job =)