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Hey guys, how do i know when a girl is ready/willing/wanting to go to the stage of isolation.
Remember, isolation isn't all about a quiet back room (Though it CAN be..). You can isolate a girl in a crowded room in a pack of her friends. Just get her to turn most of her back towards her friends. Isolation is about the FEEL that you two are having your own conversation. When you do this is when you feel that you are ready for the comfort stage. Isolation is an action, not really a stage. It is a standard transition from attraction to comfort. You do this when she has shown enough interest.
Not exact enough for you? I thnk Mystery said 3 close together ioi's? or something like that..
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Most of my opens/conversations have been surrounded by lots of other people(parties, in line for a cashier),
Oops, covered this earlier.
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I keep thinking that I'm simply not upping her buying temperature and my conversation/body language/tone is all wrong.
If you aren't doing those things... well you know a few errors. So fix them.
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How should i react/say if she says "no" or hints that she rather not?
First, I have never had this happen. If she seems interested and we have been talking for 10 minutes. She is attracted to me. Otherwise she wouldn't be talking to me.
BUT if lets say that She has wasted 10 minutes on a guy who is not attractive and is boring and I want to isolate her so I say "Good god this band is loud, Lets go over to that table over there so that we can actually hear one another." And she goes "Umm.. no, I don't think so." (first, you should have seen the signs before hand.)
then you COULD try again and say "What?" and cup your ear.
Or
You could ask "Why?" And if she says something like her friends then you can say "I meant all of us... sheesh like I would let you alone with me in a dark corner." or something like that.
Okay?
EvoJ