met a girl last week , talked to her she would not give her # to me . so i gave her mine . she did end up calling me 3 days later . we have been talking on the phone every day , she seems to be a busy girl and i don t whant to look to desperate by trying to make plans . i would really like to seduce her into coming over to my place , since she does live in the hood . any ideas on how i can get her over here ?

do you have any skills? Do you play guitar, or perhaps you can watch something on YouTube. Better yet, offer to watch a movie with her.

Be creative. Remember, if you have been talking a lot with her on the phone, you need to have great kino when you meet her. Otherwise you will be LJBFed.

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Don't watch movies. We've talked about this before.

Have a reason to come to your house that has nothing to do with seduction. Buy a kitten. Women love them, they're great company, and you can usually get away with inviting women to your home to meet something cute and fuzzy.

But don't watch movies. Nothing seductive happens with a TV on.

Well I will say one thing. If you are away from home alot ... like me with my job. Don't buy a kitten. But I disagree with you Monkey, watching movies at your own home or even hers can play in your favor.... but thats if you play a good game. I mean you should build up the relationship before you invite her to your house to watch a movie. Most of the time I invite a girl to watch a movie, it involves movie... 1/4 if not less through the movie heavy petting and possibly sex. But ya I had a good thing going before I invited them over. I had to build the trust over... the movie was just a code to her that I wanted some. But i should add in at the same time the girls I have had over to "watch a movie" have been between 18-20 (I am 21). I have never tried that game on anyone older. But I do have a date for tomorrow with a 23 year old and possibly a 25 year old on Saturday depending if she calls or I go to the bar where she is waitressing. So I guess we will see.