Hi guys. I'm new to the site, but thought i'd seek your opinions on a good situation i currently find myself in. Over the summer i was lucky enough to work with some fairly hot girls from countries all over Europe (Spain, Italy, Sweden, Russia, you can imagine). So on leaving the job I had about 20 email adresses, and have since been chatting to some of these girls via email or MSN. My long term aims are to have these as potentials for the future, (a fit gril in each european country would be nice) especially as most of them intend on returning to London pretty soon. The difficulty is maintaining sexual inuendo/interest over extended msn chats. Any tips?

Also, linked to that, one of these girls- a 25 yr old from Milan wants me to fly out there in the next few weeks, as she has just split up from her boyfriend. I spent the night with her when we worked together, but no sex. To fly out there would most likely mean guarranteed sex from a hot Italian, but it is a long way to go, especially as the finances are running low. I'm also concerned that to goso far, could be interpreted as a big commitment move, and spark inevitable conversations about a relationship that I really don't want to have. Whats your thoughts on the distance thing? Maybe I should get her over to London instead?

just remain in contact until the opportunity to travel arises. in the meanwhile, get other girls and improve your skill.

regards.

I don't know if her wanting you to fly out there is guaranteed sex- she might just miss the pleasure of your sexless company. Don't fly thousands of miles to hear LJBF in another language. If you want to find out just how interested she is in seeing you, invite her to see you. Furthermore, don't fly thousands of miles to have sex with someone your not that into- take a cab a couple of miles to a bar/club, coffee shop, etc.
~irony