Hey guys,

first off a bit of background about the situation - was seeing this chick a few years back and i still like her. We've hooked up a couple of times since we split up and its been pretty awesome. Every time i see her we both get really drunk and end up back at one of our houses and in bed together. nothing happened the last time - i didnt try to make a move on her and we both pretty much passed out lol.
I saw her again on saturday and i ran a bit of game - mostly C & F, some negs and did a bit of sarging on other girls. on the way back to mine, i made a bit of an error and went for a k close which thinking back now was a bit out of the blue (i was drunk), and got denied - she said we have too much history.
Anyways, im seeing her again in a couple of weeks to go to a concert in london and we've already arranged to stay at mine. i was just wondering what kind of approach you guys think i should run with. i was thinking to really push the mates thing and maybe when i send her to the bar, dive into a set and get them all laughing for when she comes back. back at my house i was gonna try some cube, go for a massage on her and then evolution phase shift.

any thoughts?

Cheers

Arrow

So... getting this right. You already have a sexual relationship with this girl and you want to have an actual relationship with her. The PUA forum is really about getting to the stage where you are. If you want to get further you might just want to talk to her about what you want.

I would be VERY cautious about what routines you throw at her. The cube is almost useless because she already EXPECTS you to know all that stuff about her. A massage is just basically kino escalation, which I am sure worked in the past (You two already have sex from time to time). And Evolution phase is just there to get past the first kiss.

You already have these things so you don't need the routines. If you want more with this woman than you are looking in the wrong place. We are here for the Pick-up... not the Already fucked her and want a relationship part.


We are here for the guys who can't talk to them because they visualize her laughing them out of the room and your past that with her. You want a relationship, work it out with her.

EvoJ

hey,

cheers for the advice but im not really after a relationship with her SPAM. the sex isnt a given when we stay together anymore so i have to entice her back into it.

Ah, I see. This gets into area's that I have no idea about. She already knows you bro and I think showing incongruency is by far more damaging than not throwing good game. If you change your strat and she sees that your doing it then it can be hella harmful. So, my best advice to you is be very very careful about what you decide to do, she knows you...

Best of luck,
EvoJ