Birthdays are a neglected topic in the community. I've known this girl for a few years, she's actually my ex from a couple years back. We stayed good friends and just recently I began hooking up with her again. Her birthday is the 5th and I feel like I gotta do somethin, how do pua's do gifts without coming off afc? also, any good original gift ideas?? thanks guys

The trick is to make sure that the gift isn't free. Sure, it's her birthday, but she should have to work to get your present. Come up with some little requirement for her to meet (a backrub/a kiss/a blowjob/a whatever) and if she doesn't provide, threaten to take the present away. Always make sure that things are in proper balance. Don't do things for her without getting something in return, and don't expect her to do things for you without your doing something to earn it.

get her something, but also make sure that she gets you something in return, something cheap and funny (like plastic squirt guns).

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gentleman! pay attention.

women want a man who cares for them...

if you only date her when you want to fuck her...
if you only give her something only to ask for something in return immediately... does she feel protected, does she feel special?

i'll tell you: no...
she'll just feel you don't care... and play with you some more until she loses interest even if at first she was attracted to you...

and also...
give her a gift because YOU want it... and tell her you appreciate her ...
don't do it to get something instead... it's a form of insult that way...

give her a gift only if you feel it and make sure you tell her the meaning behind it... without being needy, without fearing of getting hurt... just be you, and forget the fear...



enjoy.

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this works awesome for me:

Buy a lil small gift box... put a string in it.. or something like a string...
wrap it up and give it to her

When she opens it up she'd be like "WTF?"

and you say: "something for you to wear later when I give you the rest of your present"... AND SMILE!!!!!!!

and yes guys you actually have to get her a present too haha! Usually a night out thats all great fun (casino for example) and end it in a hotel room but.. have this set for another night not on her birthday!

Finesse.. over and out!

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Pregame, good to know you are getting back with this girl. hopefully she also thinks she is getting back with you. having dated before I am sure you guys have some fond memories (music, movies, stuff you used to do together, concerts you went to, whatever) so use that. Any AFC or even PUA would give her something nice...but you know her from before and have a load of experiences together, so use them to your advantage. cook for her something she really likes, write a card if she likes those, say something that takes her back to those good days together. My point is that, as I read somewhere yesterday, it is not about EXTERNAL stuff, it is all about how you make her FEEL. Most likely she will FEEL something if you convey sentiment and emotion in your gift rather than conveying horniness or something like that.

just advice from a total newbie. I hope it makes some sense.
good luck.

P.D Sorin, I like your approach, thanks!