Ok, so I went out to a club (dance) with my wing, and while we were walking across the dance floor I saw a 9. She was dancing with her friend (girl), so we were 2 and so were they. I aproached the 9 and used body language to ask her to dance. Her reply was no, with her finger, but smiling. My wing recieved the same reply form her friend. So, I kind of negged her in a funny way, dancing behind her, laughed, and left that spot.

Later, i went through the samespot and i felt a finger in my back. I turned around and i saw her, dancing with her friend. She kind of looked at me for half a second and then pretended as she didnt do anything. wtf?

So i aproached and told her: "That hurted..." and she replied: "Im sorry", and smiled, and continue dancing. Then I left...

Sarging in my country is a lot more difficult than sarging in USA. I know this cause ive been there a lot of times... women here are very difficult!...

I think I should had played with her a little more... i mean played her game... but how? :/

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I would have responded differently to her poking her.

"Hands off the merchandise, this shit ain't for free" is a lot better than "That hurt"

I can't speak to whether chilean women are harder to pick up than american ones, but it seems like most of the concepts involved with sarging are universal.

Another thing -- YOU should be the one to leave HER out of disinterest. Not the other way around. Leaving is a false disqualifier, much like a neg.

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She was doing to you what most guys here try to do to women.

Call her on it. Flat out say "I know what you are doing - it may work on the average idiot but not me - when you grow up - I'll be over at the bar" She is gonna be shocked then pissed that you disrespected her like that - she is used to having the guy fall all over her after she does something like that so you have to NOT BE THAT guy.

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I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.

I'm not sure what compelled you leave the girls to begin with. When on the dance floor you have got to keep the girls talking to you, kino escalate grab their hands make them do a spin move into you, playful negging(you did that) do things the AFC won't (besides sneaking up and grinding their croth against her). Develop some connection so they will want to keep dancing with or better yet move them off the dance floor so you can hear yourself talk. Your problem could have been with your comfort levels performing in front of your wingman seems you both left the targets. Unless your wingman really good and you two have gotten your game plan for the night work you should work separate sets on your own. If you dont have plan worked out you're going to feel pressure from your wing an not to the things you would normally do with the female in front of him.

Last thing that girl was giving you IOI's by poking you. And unless the set goes dead don't leave

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