Well hopefully some of you guys have met a nice girl and want to make it to more than just a HB?
Well here is an old formula of mine but be warned only to use it on good girls sluts wont reciprocate and bad ones willbreak your heart so be sure you making a the right choice!
1. You met her made an impression and so did she
2. You wait no less than 2 days preferably 4 or more but less than 10
to conact her preferably by phone but my favourite is text message
3. You contact her being cocky and funny ,making her want to see you and right at the end of a short phone call or text messages less than 4 messages from you, and less than 5 minutes if by phone ,you made arrangements to see each other , hopefully you were the man and made the decisions example of a good date : cocktails or indoor rockclimbing...ect. time and together agreed omn a day
4. After the date you kiss her
but only if she crossed the physical barrier first ....never you! she must do this twice on her own accord.
5.She lets you know she had a good time.
6. You only conact her to see if she got home safely ....thats if you not dropping her off which i suggest its more romantic for her!
7. You wait again another 3-5 days to conact her unless she text messaged you twice! or called you!!!Once again you make contact to make arangmebts for the next ''get together''(call it that , they love it for some reason..not a date)If she says its a date thats an IOI:)
8. Same as before she breaks the physical barrier and you help her later do it again and this time your kiss at the end of the date is longer and deeper ...make her smile man
9.Same as before wait 3-4 days and make a more serious outing like a movie and a small bite to eat afterwards(any order) and in the movie or what ever you do you make the first move and touch her but not for long or too much because she must feel safe and comfortable and most importantly crave it!!!You must make progress with the kino!! but still slowly.
NOTE!!!! Never make a date while on a date or in advance ....never be predictable:) be mysterious and make her think of you fondly whilst she waits to see you again
10. you keep seeing her but no more thantwice a week and preferably never on a saturday until you been seeing each other for atleast 4-5 weeks or you have shagged her:) on more than one occasion
11. Keep this up till you been seding her for 3 months or till she wants to know if you ahev anyone else in your life(girl that is) thats the IOI for ''i want to be oyurs''
12. Youask her to be your girlfriend how ever way you do it do it with style and romance.
some warning : i) Dont chase her , be the honey and her the bee
ii) Be prepared to walk away at any point
iii)You never have to pay for her attention
iv) Remember its a two way thing evaluate her aswell.
v) Be yourself corny but its true , you can do self
improvement and discover new talents but never be
something you not!
vi) Trust your gut ... and consult us you are aprt of a community but always make your own decisions and keep her wanting more
Over and out
:):)
Wiggles
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