For instance, one thing I learned from porn, Jenna Jameson in particular, is that the best lube for sex is spit, by far

well im a virgin and i dont want my first time to be an embarassment

Well I've thought about it and I've decided that there's about two ways to look at it, masturbation can be a good thing and a bad thing.

pros for masturbating : *it increases your sexual desire - this is good stuff for newbies since most of them still have extreme AA.
*better control of yourself - face it those who masturbate do it because they can't stop themselves, most of us don't plan it out
*there's nothing to be caught on - this is a good point, you can't get caught doing something that you don't do

pros for not masturbating:*control of desire - in a lot of relationships women have the power because they have control over sex, if you don't need her to pleasure you, then you can have the power in the relationship
*calms you down - face it, this is relaxing stuff, you're having a bad day it'll make you feel just a bit better, and you can just calm down and start sarging, you don't need sexual desire to sarge, you only need to want to improve your game


The way I see it if you want to get good don't masturbate at first, there's a lot of pros who'll tell you its ok, or its not, basically if you're not skilled enough to pick up a girl without having to deal with AA then don't masturbate. On the other hand if you're skilled and your energy is over the roof then you might as well do it right before you sarge to calm you down. Just don't do it till you pro, be careful, if you just started out a month or two ago don't do it at all.

I find that KY, is an excellent lube as well. I have accidentally made women orgasm, just from the meer application of the lube on their clits.

I watch porn to learn how to SPEAK DIRTY , and how to treat the GIRL LIKE A SLUT .


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