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The Next Step in the pick-up community looks an awful lot like a Round Table. We each need to find a tribe of pick-up artists who think like we do, and forge connections with those people. We need to establish relationships. We need a community that -isn't- thousands strong, but is instead built of small, tight-knit groups contributing to the same causes. We need to refrain from publishing our work (a major issue in the mainstreaming of the community thus far).
I've been wanting to comment on this for a while, and now is when I get my chance to do so.
Here we go:
First Pickup Philosophy:
"Unfortunately in this game, you're going to leave people behind, those are the ones that are holding you back, and the only ones that you can trust are those ON THE SAME PATH as you"
As a community we want to work as exactly that, a COMMUNITY, where we help each other out, though harsh reality, things ARE NOT working like that and most likely WILL NEVER work like that. (Proof down below)
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Now, guys I want you to picture this in your head:
I want you to compare two countries, Sweden and China (rough examples).
Sweden with a population of 9 million and something people.
And China with a population of more than 1 billion.
If you ever read anything about world culture, you should've heard that Sweden things go easy for everyone, everyone progresses and they are, in fact, VERY PEACEFUL. Their population is small as it gets, but they all TOGETHER make a strong force, so THEIR COMMUNITY wins. (Refer to Monkey's highlighted post)
On the other hand, China with over 1 billion in population live in chaos, and poverty, some are successful, some are not, great country, but only few live good, most of them dont. (Again, refer to Monkey's post)
Leave aside how the gov't works, 'cause you could also think about of Pickup as Politics, The pick up gurus are your gov't (most of them sell themselves and funny thing is, they do it for money too), the apprentinces are us, the people, who buy all their lies (although there are some smart ones who don't), and the programs we want to win and work hard for are: women, (duh!)
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It's harsh reality guys, I love helping in this forum, but if by now, you haven't realized that things SLOW DOWN SO DAMN MUCH, and that's because there is a total mess, people who want to achieve different goals are all mixed up in just one BIG GIANT group...
Like Monkey said: Small group contributing to the same cause is highly more effective than a gigantic one with many different causes.
I, personally, will continue posting and answering a couple of newbie questions, if other people havent done it.
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We need to forget everything we've learned, go back to basics, and move in a different direction. This means we need to understand the basic underlying principles of -why- pick-up works, and how we can change the system so that it works, but works in a different way.
Yup, let's go for the "why", and not for the "what"
Let's become that "natural", instead of that "robot"