hey guys, I was previously gaming this game and she gave soo many IOIs: she was touching me all the time, playinh with her hair, laughing at all my jokes, giving me nicknames like honey... I thought i got her. But after I realized, that she gives IOIs even to some AFC friends she got. I dont get it, shes giving IOIs to everybody!!! WTF??

Anyway, can you explain that? What do you do in these situations? (i negged her a lot, called her barbie, told her: it would never work out between us...
Thanks for your answers
Peace

Hmmm. tough one. You're right to neg her, etc. You definitely need to show IOD, to stand out. Other guys will probably compliment her, etc, so don't do that.

You definitely want to ramp up the DHV, but try focusing on the jealousy department? She's definitely an attention seeker, so make her work for it, and show her that you're not just another guy who makes HER your whole world.

If you're out, and can isolate, run compliance tests. If she passes, ioi her back. if she doesn't, IOD and run more jealousy.

Good luck! hope this helped.

dude iv had the same problem i just find these girls are only after one thing alot of attention..
i find if ur still pleasant with them but dont give them the hugs ect... and flirt with people around them, that normally works a charm, play it cold for a few weeks give a few SOI's if she is doin somethin you find attractive and then game on from there

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I've dealt with a couple of these HB's and found out the only way to secure them is to not give them the attention they want. Oh you can give them attention alright, but mostly negative attention. Really make her work for the positive stuff. After a while she will clearly distinguish you from the heard.

There's always the possibility that she's just an endearing sort of person who warms up to people very quickly. One of my friends is exactly like that - it's just the way she is. Negs don't work on her unless she actually thinks you're someone whose opinion matters. She's genuinely a really good person - the way to get to her if negs don't work is to become a very fun person to hang around with because she naturally responds to a positive vibe.

See, the thing about forums is that I can't actually meet this person you're talking of for myself - so I'm just tossing up some loose ideas.

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Id use mysterys line ' you have a very strong personality, where did this develope were you beaten as a child? infact dont tell me i dont wana know'

and also ' hey dont just touch! im not just a bit of meat u know, dam you girls are all the same! sexual predetors the lot of you'

Okay okay here comes the real help, this chick in a nutshell; Attention blackhole the more she keeps at it the more attention you give her ?=) okay take it way, take alllllll of it away start giving the attetion to someone else infront of her!

SF

Um, or you could just get her alone, and seal the deal. With a flirt its hard to tell whether they're really into you, but most of the time they wont flirt with you unless there's at least a small part of them that has at least considered you a possibility.

IT may just be me, but I found that isolating more than anything else tends to solve a lot of problems.

I agree with Swing. Even if she isn't interested... you WILL find out when you isolate her. She will have no reason to continue the Kino/flirting in private if she isn't really interested. And if she is, then that is great and you can ramp it up. If she initiates kino in private, you increase it.

Simple fix.

Oh and if you can't isolate her then that is a pretty clear sign that she wants just attention. In fact, attention from not just you or him or her but all the attention she can get. (I know a girl like this... she would gladly get finger f!cked by another girl in the center of a party... but won't do anything in private nor will she really let herself be isolated.)

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