Would just like to share some rules that I have found to work particuarly well when you have already met a girl a few times. when I was 15 I was a victim of this kind of play and it drove me to obsession - hopefully it works well the other way too. Let me know if you agree with these or not....

1. Never meet a girl on her terms. You must decide on the location for her to meet you. Be clear that you will not change your plans for her and she must accommodate you (not by stating it obviously). I personally don't recommend meeting her together with her friends. Its preferrable the other way. (make sure your friends are trustworthy so you can comfortably ignore her a few times without them hitting on her)

2. Don't show a girl any affection in public. This will drive them nuts and they will wonder if you are embarrased to be seen with them. (a form of neg if you like) you must do this comfortably tho or she will think you are scared of her.

3. Put doubt in their mind. A girl who is sure about your intentions will feel to secure and might lose interest. give her vague answers to probing questions.

4. Give her competition - even if its not other girls, make her jealous of the time you spend with your friends or mother, etc. (women are funny that way) even dropping a few stories about your ex will work (not too many tho)

5. Never plead, never overly apologise but always appear a kind person.

6. Sometimes, telling girls you are not looking for a relationship works well. They will make it their goal to try to give you one. When you fuck other girls you have excuse that you stated your intentions upfront.

7. Never be jealous at anything a girl says or does. remember, you are the prize not her, so if she flirts with others or tells you a story about some guy who keeps calling her, it is a test to see if you care about her. Don't give her the satisfaction of getting jealous. If she really wanted to cheat on you, she wouldnt be telling you about it or doing it in front of your face.....


what say you johnny public?