Was wondering if blow jobs are preferred because you feel alpha when you are receiving one. Not to mention it's easier to teach a girl how to give one than it is to teach a girl that sex takes effort on BOTH parts. Don't get me wrong I have had some great sex. But for me personally, there is nothing like sitting back in my la-z-boy and getting head while drinking a brew and watching the tube!

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Haha. I think it's very situational. Most of the time I'd say sex, cos the girl enjoys it too, and I'm not a selfish prick. But then there's the times when, like you said, you feel like just laying back and listening to those sweet slurping noises whilst feeling immense pleasure.

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- Difference

F that. I'd rather get her naked and do it.

I agree with rtyhmes, theres nothing better than a good b/j , I knw its selfish, but hey what can I say I like dominance in sex and I think most guys do its instictive, a girl on her knees sucking my cock.... enough said lol

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-Giacomo Casanova

I would rather sex just because its a little bit more challenging to get than a blowjob. Of course whenever i'm having sex I get a blowjob before or after so why would I just settle for one? Nothing feels better than the vagina.. nothing at all!

Sex all the way. Both of you getting into it and having a fucking great time. Changing positions, hammering away, her screaming, you smiling, fun had by all.

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I actually find that it is harder to get a blow job. Girls are more willing to have sex because it is a mutual pleasure where as a blow job only servs the male

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"In all things be a master.
Of what you do, say and think." -Buddha

I heard in the states its easier getting blow jobs, but in europe its the opposite

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I am bound to add that the excess in too little has ever proved in me more dangerous than the excess in too much; the last may cause indigestion, but the first causes death.
-Giacomo Casanova

hmmmm - is this one of those silly threads that everyone is talking about??? i wonder....

fuck it, ill bite....

head jobs are all about an individuals POWER over another individual. It creates a alpha-type scenario which distances himself from emtions.

sex is all about and emotional connection between two beings. If two people are insync - then the passion should flow freely. NOTHING can beat this connection when it is at its peak.

if you dont understand the difference between the two then you need to re-establsh the reasons why your bedding a women in the first place - if you are not doing it for the emotional ecstacy, then you are doing it for the glory. which is ALL fucked up in your mind-set!!!

I'm going to say "Yes." Just because I'm getting one doesn't mean I can't have the other that night.

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I don't know about any of you guys. But my sex includes at least a 10 minute blow-job to get me going and me returning the favor with some muff diving. Sex all the way.

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might just be me, but ive never had a blowjob to the point where i could finish. sex >bj

but blowjobs are the next best thing... hand jobs.... id rather just do it myself.

i honestly dont see how this is helping any off our game,
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im down for the full monty

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

well that is a hard one.. but you dont need protection for a blow job and you cant get her pregnant.
just a couple other perspectives on the question.

Ecko

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When it's up to me, I prefer sex that ends in a blow job...