| Well, guys, im new to this forum and from what i read on this section of the forum, im having a totally different problem than all others. I've meet a girl 3 months ago, we got together, had sex, had good time, it was something like love from both sides. The only problem is that....she is married. She was (when we met) in the state where she wants to divorce as her man is away from home most of the time with buisness, she didn't marry beacuse she was in love, she did it just to get rid of her father and married the first nice guy which she was with. Her husband is that type of guy which fucks her once in 3 months (there is no sexual attraction betwem them), offers her everything she wants (if she wants a new car, she gets a new car, if she wants a trip somewhere, she gets a trip somewhere). She said that she fell crazy in love with me and we were meeting everytime when the guy was out of town. The big problem is that when she got in relationship with me she was pressed by her parents, his parents and other relatives to make a child with her husband. There were lots of people which were putting pressure on both of them that it's the time to make a child. She didn't went to making a child when she found me, we had a great time together, she was telling me everytime that she loves me so much that she can't describe it in words. All this for about 2-3 months, till she had to go with her husband in a trip to his parents. Then, when she came back she told me that she remained pregnant with him....
Well, it's clear that sky fell down on me, beacuse i told her that i ask only 1 thing from her: to dont remain pregnant beacuse we cant be together anymore if she is pregnant with another guy. At a time we were speaking about the possibility she to remain pregnant with me (to get rid of the pressure from outside persons - which ask her to remain pregnant) and to divorce when we have the possibility to move together and probably to get married. But, by surprise, she remained pregnant with the other guy. What's worse is that even the day before she slept with her husband, she called me to tell me that she misses me, that she loves me and so on.
Now...i don't know what to do. She's that type of woman which her parents and other's people opinion play a extremly important role for her. She was afraid to divorce beacuse she was afraid of how other close persons will react... I do not want to give up her, but i do not want to stay with a woman which is pregnant with another guy, even if she seems that she's ok with the ideea to still be with me while she's pregnant with the other guy.
Normally, given my other experiences i should give up on her and move on. But...i do not want to do this. I want to get her to be mine, or to revenge on her in a way or another. The only problem is that she seems also to suffer beacuse we can't be together right now, beacuse she is pregnant and i still didnt decide what to do...
I was thinking on disappearing from her life for a period, so she will start to miss me, but that's quite impossible as we work in the same place and we see each other at last once per week....
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