Girl who's an 8, goes to school with me. She flirts with me all the time, constantly trying to kino me. I make a move on her and I get the LJBF speech! I was blown away but not convinced. When she'd try to hold my hang I would slap it playfully and say "No.", along with doing freeze out and some other things. In all ways showed total disinterest.
After two weeks of a gruling freeze out she came up to me and said that she likes me a lot.

But the LJBF as a shit test?! What do you make of this?

Did you actually make a move on her or did you talk about making a move on her?

Did you ask her if she wanted mess around with you or did you tell she wanted you?

you need to take the burden of responsibility off of her and put it on to you. You're the man, Take what you want - like a caveman.

tell her you have a hw assignment you need help on, tell her you wrote a sick song on guitar she must come hear. Tell her there is a dead bear in your backyard and she needs to come see it. Isolate her. Make another move.

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"Wait, so let me get this straight. One really big meal a day then we go to sleep, no paper towels but a little bit of bread because we're not Nazis and as many popsicles as we want."

the ljbf can definitely be a shit test. and in your situation, it definitely seems like one. any time a girl kino's you first, that is a huge IOI. just blow off the ljbf comment and do what captain said below me. isolate her and make a smooth move. not something abrupt or awkward.

this might sound a little lame, but a move i actually use is when walking with a girl in this type of situation grab her hand and start to skip. thats very innocent, smooth, and most importantly, fun. if she follows along, IOI. make sure your smiling and laugh a little bit and not a robot.

good luck

This is an all out win comment!!

Okay so here's the dealio.

The LJBF was a total shit test, which I am still surpirsed.

I have this whole theory on LJBF.
When you get into LJBF, you can't get out of it! EVER! (under normal non life-changing circumstances)
But you hear the stories where people become friends then lovers, there wasn't a friend zone between them, they just stayed in A2 or A3 extra long.

Which is what happend, and I am going to claim my theory correct based on the evidence I have seen.



Actually though we are together now and I am comfortably moving through C2.

what did you do to make it work?

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"Wait, so let me get this straight. One really big meal a day then we go to sleep, no paper towels but a little bit of bread because we're not Nazis and as many popsicles as we want."

You should drop the whole following the phase thing, it only confuses you whilst your sat there trying to figure out what stage your in.. just let your game flow.. dont follow stages or routines and besides your with her now relationship pickup is a whole different game.. you have to put aside the PUA tools and just remain alpha state.. mix it up with the occasional cocky funny attutitude, just be unpredictable.

Totti.

First off, "what I did to make it work?". After she rejected my move(which was a kiss, BTW) I showed a sever lack of interest. When she'd try to hold my hand, I would pick it up, lightly slap it and say "No!". I did that for about a week and then one day she came up to me and was just like "I like you."

I have to disagree, Mystery's Phases are very accurately put together and helpful. It's not confusing, it's a skill to know which stage your at, and what techniques to apply. "Don't follow routines now that were in a relationship and it's a different game."; No, comfort/relationship is where the game is played, and it is when you should STOP using so much cocky funny. Yeah David. D. does have some great stuff and I use it but it's mostly good for only building attraction.

Again what works for me may be different for you but well done getting it handled.

Totti;;