I really need to hear your opinion about this guys.
There's a girl.We have been studying together for 2 years.She's not a HB.Actually,when I first saw her,I thought she was an ug.But as I got
to know her,she appeared to be an amazing personality:super
smart,intelegent,funny and we really get each other.This was the first
time in my life when I fell in love with her persponality first and
after she became very beautifull to me(as a HB would).I really fell in
love with her.
About 1,5 years ago I encountered "the game".She was my first test
bunny.I wanted her to be mine.It was with her that I learned that you
can't use negs all the time,or c&s tease her excessively.
We are both very dominant people.And it's always a kind of cat and
mouse game between us.Who will get the power.
She has two AFC's in her orbit.They are her friends,but more like
slaves to me.A can see that they are into her for good and they would
do everything toget her atention.They always try to talk to her,to be friendly,to kino her.Oh they try to get kino as hell.And she gives it to them-to keep them in orbit.I think they truly hope to get a kiss some day.
I also try to kino her,but I feel that it's me who is only showing the
iniciative.She is more of a-ok I'll touch you-to keep you in my
orbit.And I feel that she's trying to make me her orbiter.When I feel
this,I immidiately push her away.It's like a fight for dominance.
Our relatinship reminds me of ups and downs.We really match.I tell her
some inside joke.We both start to laugh.Then she tries to get my
attention by demonstrating interest,kinoing.Then I say something like
"hey hold the horses".When she notices that she's losing her frame and
turns away from me.
Without expecting anything special I invited her to go to the
contemporary art centre.Her reply was unexpected "Wow,I would be
glad.Nice "She agreed to meet at any time.This looked so IOI.Does
she like me?Is she into me?I couldn't stop thinking abut her for two
days between the meeting.
I decided firmly.It's a girlfriend relationshoip I want to have with
her or no relationship at all.
I imagined/planned the meeting.We meet-hug tight-and i kiss her in one
of the ways:do you want to kiss me?lets do an almost kiss,i'm trying
so hard not to kiss you or simply go caveman.In the worst case
scenario-kiss her later in the date.
The reality was harsh.She came,but the hug wasn't sensual kino
type.She made it a formal one.The kiss wanished before my eyes.At the
art centre we created a hat together.That got us closer.But as we
walked threw the city she didn't show reply to my iniciative to hold
hands.Crap.Althought, we had nice talking going on.There was a moment
she wanted to give me a handkerchief-and I replied-oh-i don't need
your love letter.I invited her to go see shrek the 3(I really wanted
to see the movie myself,not just date).However,tommorow is her day
off-she will sleep all day-bla bla bla.After tomorrow she is
travelling to the countryside.Frick.The end was sad.We live very
close.But she didn't want to go on the same bus.She said she'll wait
for the bus which drives closer to her home.
Dam,I love her.But she is sending mixed signals(she was really
enthusiastic about the date).What should I do?

Alright. First off, attraction is not a given. I don't really have a "type." I have a certain physicality I'm immediately attracted to, but until I've had a chance to sit down and talk to a girl, I have no idea if I'm interested in her or not. If she's not a 10, I'll still talk to her. Maybe she has some personal qualities that I find more attractive than her physicality.

I digress.

I'm sorry to say it, bro, but you're playing right into her hands. She wants the attention of these satellites you've mentioned, and you're giving her more of that. Take that attention away from her. Be disinterested. Be ACTIVELY disinterested.

You(the next time you're studying): So I met this new girl. Her name's Karen, and I really like her. She's sweet, easy to talk to, pretty, and we really felt an immediate... connection, you know? I feel completely at ease with her. It's a little like you-and-me, but with more... _sexual tension_. I think I might ask her out.

If she asks for more details, tell her that you don't want to divulge too much of Karen's personal details. You'll have to ask her permission first.

This is high risk. You need to be willing to lose HBOrbiter if you're going to reel her back in. You've been warned.

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I can sympathise with this. In fact a lot of guys will do. But if you want to win her you have to be prepared to lose her. (Can't remember where that came from but it gets the point across).

You need to go out and find yourself a girl or two, go on some other dates. Don't follow your girl round like a lap dog. If you withdraw all your affection she will soon chase it, give her a little then pull it away again. Turn the tables and make her pursue you. If she doesn't let it sit for a bit then, when she thinks you two are no more then dive in and game her hard and then pull away. She won't be able to resist. You just got to plant a seed of doubt in her mind. If she isn't sure you are still 'hers' she will to regain you - you said so yourself in a way. Just make yourself progressively harder to regain so she has to give you more and more of what you really want.

Just don't get too caught up, these things work out in ways that will surprise you.