I meet this girl at a club and gamed her realy well, 5 questions game, DHV stories, NEgs the works, the thing she said she had to go after she bought me a drink and I said I would get her phone number in a bit, but when I finaly found her again her friends were leaving so I didn't have time to, anyways she told me she was friends with someone I knw and she has her facebook, should I add her and send her a message(if so what do I say), It might seem like im desprate..... and plus she seemed intrested when I was talking to her but she left with her friends and didn't stop to say hello so im perty confused on what to do and let me tell u shes HB 8

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I just fell that you haven't created enuogh attraction-what's why she left.
I think messaging isn't the best option.But you have nothing to lose.Yure the alfa,seize every opportunity:start by"hey,remember me".Try to build attraction threw messages.In worst case scenario if she doesn't show interest-you will not be confused and move on.In the best case-you got yuorself a girl.

send her a message without adding her if you can(let her add you). if you cant send one without adding her just add her and say something. nothing long, something playful with a at the end. MAKE IT A QUESTION. things like facebook and myspace are WAY underrated in my opinion and should be paid attention to alot more. These days these females live on those things.

If she doesnt write you back dont write her again, you get one time. Its not a desperate thing to add someone on thefacebook or myspace, especially after having fun with them or meeting them while out. I dont know how many times people have done that shit to me. I dont think its desperate of them, im just like "ok". If I dont think its desperate, a woman doesnt think shit of it for sure. Its not as good as a phone call, but not as bad as nothing, its a nice medium which I take anyday and is completely workable.

add her, ask a question so she has something to respond to, start a dialogue. keep it funny. throw in a or