Last friday i had my first F-Close since joining the game. My problem is ever since i have felt like shit, i dont have the same motivation for it i did before. Has anyone experienced this?

After having 1 F-close?:roll: I don't think so... was it that good that you lost motivation?? My motivation comes from wanting to be social, and meeting new ppl, drawing them into my life and understanding humanity better. Sex shouldn't be the award, to me, its just an added bonus.

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Buyers remorse, you're on the other side of the fence now!

Its completely natural and normal if your not conditioned to one-night-stands etc.

I recently experienced this a little and found for me the real enjoyment comes from the thrill of the chase rather than being able to f-close near strangers / unemotional sex.

Just take it slower next time, tease her and wait till *you* really want to escalate things. Take confidence from this that your game works, now raise your standards and have HBs qualify themselves to you as opposed to rushing things. Wait till something worthwhile comes along.

I've experienced the same thing recently - got a girl back to my room for her to give me my first BJ the other day, and it wasn't as good as I had anticipated, unfortunately. Since then, I've actually realised that there are more important things than getting laid, and though I won't stop running game, it means that I won't be as disappointed. I suppose that it's helped to detatch some emotion from it, and will probably make me more successful, as rather than feigning apathy to the hot girl, I will genuinely be leaving her to win me over rather than the other way around.

Turn the demotivation around - rather than going out really trying to f-close now, just chill out, run game and if you meet a girl you like then it will give you your motivation back and you'll get her back home.