Recently I had to differ between something called a rejection and resistance.

I honestly cannot tell the different and I treat both as the same thus making me next the girl and not initiating any further contact with her. Im not talking specificly about sexual resistance and rejection im talking about the stage before having sex with the girl. For example , If I call a girl for a D2 and she tells me she is busy with her friends I usually just put it in my mind that it woudnt work out. If I talk to a girl and she aint complying Ill try to further the compliance and if it still gets a level of negative feed back I next her.


The problem is in an interaction the man must "plow" but plowing is arranged for resistances and not rejections.

So what are some indicators that can help me detect these. I realised that the best way to find out is to spend more time and experience with women so it just finally clicks as a natural.

thanks ,
Arman Van Kleise

Well, in my opinion, I think that no girl will ever reject me. That's the frame you should always have. It definitely beats the "rejection" mind set.

Now understanding why these girls are doing this I think will take you a long way.

Remember when she put's up resistances, all girls do, it's like a filter. She has realized over time, that, it is to her benefit if she put's some form of challenges to "test" men.
The reason is very simple, obviously she just wants some assurance that down the road she will feel safer knowing that you can stand your ground.

Often I push a little, I don't mind trying. But I never come off as "trying to hard". I act like a reasonable person, often someone might just be "busy" or they couldn't actually call you back. The second I find out that its not going anywhere than I just move on. I DON'T QUIT, I MOVE ON.
Just remember, it's no big deal. As easy as she came, is as easy as she goes.

Don't forget that women who have sex have much more to lose then us.

Now another reason girls might be putting up resistance, could be totally from your approach. That's something you gotta ask yourself, how are you delivering your material.

It's normally best to have wing, who can see things that you might not see in your behavior.

Hope this helps out with your work.

Peace