so i just got into the game a few weeks ago and have been doing ok solo but i would really really like a wing, mentor, to be someone's wing idk w/e
all my friends around me are AFC's with one-itis so they're all pretty much out. basically I need to be Style when he first started and im looking for a mystery to take me under his wing...any takers?
Thanks everyone
Tharpie

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James Bond: No, don't worry, you're not my type.
Vesper Lynd: Smart?
James Bond: Single.

I'm happy to help, but you'll be able to learn plenty from people in here as well. Alot of this game is meant to be learned by going out and doing it. You say all your friends are AFCs and don't want to go out...so what? Ho out without them, I've done it millions of times and continue to ditch my buddies if they won't come out.

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I totally agree with Methuselah, unfortunately im too far away to help, but thats the beauty of online. No one is too far away

I totally see where your coming from with regards to doing it solo, but if your out sarging anyway your mates are only gonna slow you down, especially if they are serious AFC's like you said.

I dont go alone alot but i have in the past and I just tell girls (when they ask, and they will) where my mates are, i say one has gone to the bank to get money or im meeting them here later, that way if your in a set you dont need to explain till the close that your Asshole of a mate didnt show...... this also helps.....

Divinity

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damn divinity your tricks on you tube are awesome...
personal fan of the coke levitation...but as a street performer you're pretty used to going up to people solo and creating the conversation pretty much I really need help getting over that initial fear of rejection and what not
which when I think about it u go to a club some girls tell u to feck off...what worse could happen u know? but I still freeze up:( thats prolly what i need help with most getting over that first hill and not caring about what happens when I go out...suggestions on that?

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Vesper Lynd: Am I going to have a problem with you, Mr. Bond?
James Bond: No, don't worry, you're not my type.
Vesper Lynd: Smart?
James Bond: Single.

Yeah bro. Approach anxiety is probably THE biggest thing for a budding PUA. Im sure the others will agree, once you cant past the initial approach, your fine, so long as you dont fuck up. Anchor in, get some good IOI's then start THE FUN lol. I just love it dude, its like a sience, i remembered first learning hypnotism and i was shitting my pants to to my first induction, i was like "No way will this shit work....thier not under" damn right it worked and now i have NO fear.

Also (and im sure all will agree) , once you make a few approaches into 3 and 4 sets then you will lose the anxiety bro i can promise. You will never see what you were afraid of, also BELIEVE that your awsome, that every fucker in the place is an AFC and the set that YOU CHOOSE are damn fucking blessed!!! If they blow you off, shit, thier loss brother. (im not saying be a uber confident dude) just believe in yourself. Baring in mind, if you fail, its always YOUR fault. So, you go away and you fix it. This thing is for life, mating, reproduction, its human nature that shit cant go away, so better start getting good. Thats my attitude to it.

If im gonna be on this earth for another 70 years i aint gonna chump my way along.

When your studying up focus more on approach rather than 2nd day shit.

and just practice, even rehearse your openers, or try them online on MSN or myspace or that. THere is a plethora of info even on here I would get 3 or 4 good openers, then some set stratagies how to isolate your target etc etc.... your goal is a kiss close or a number close. I would be happy with several kiss/number closes at night. If i wanna get laid then that can be arranged (im sad and have a few girls in my phone that i can text if im really needing a shag). The idea is to get as many "closes" as possible thus proving your success to yourself dude.

But your already here, learning , listening, so your on the right track brother, pitty your AFC mates that dont know what they are missing.

Even when doing a gig i get told to go away now and then, I just pick pocket the fucker!! lol (kidding).

Hope some of my ramblings have helped man.

Divinity

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