| How do you DHV? Such a beautiful question...
I mean, everyone knows the routines, right?
5 questions game, best friends test, my personal cellphone routine, elicit values, etc
Others use storytelling, othercs C&F
The problem is... when everything you use is canned
I've been reading some posts asking how to DHV about certain things (i.e: that you dated a stripper before)
An people go out and about with the canned stuff
Two questions remain unaswered by most though, and this right here is why many mPUAs differ from others
Have you ever even tried to make one of your own?
Have you ever bothered to analyze the reasoning behind it? meaning what's the purpose of it? and when it's best to apply it?
Let me explain something
If you apply routine after routine after routine that you hear or read, it wont have any good effect if you don't know the meaning behind it,
Here is a dirty lil secret, EVERY routine has FUNDAMENTALS
You could make "routines" out of any situation
Any, just need some creativity, be calm and of course knowledge.
So
The right way to DHV...
I read in "The Game" this quote "A rich man doesn't have to tell you he's rich"... "You will know by looking at him"...
And it thought it was just brilliant
So... If any case you want to show women you used to date a stripper (which I assume what you really wanna communicate is that you date quality women), what you do is you qualify, QUALIFY HER GOOD
You DHV in a subtle way
So, if you wanna communicate that you date hot women, you don't say it, you show it on your behavior
It's like saying "A man who dates quality women doesnt have to tell you he dates quality women, you can tell when you're aorund him"
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SUGGESTIONS:
Whenever you use a routine or learn a new one, analyze it, try to see the reasoning behind it.
Once you understand it, you will be able to do better things at THE RIGHT MOMENT
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