hey guys

i'm new here, and wanna contribute sumthin to this kick-ass forum. so i thought i'd ramble on bout fone game. Some incline 2 thinkin FG is not so necessary, that it should really be used 2 arrange face2face meetings. While i can appreciate dis point, even when teeing up meetings we need some kinda FG. Pretty obvious to thu chic if ya aint fun on da fone, then ya ain't gonna be any better in person.

It probably goes without sayin that ya should never ask 'are ya busy'/wot r ya doin/wot did u do today....all that shits lame, and ya should never need to remind her where ya met.


My basic MO is to never intro myself, and begin the call in a way that will throw the chic. I may start the convo wit sumthin like:....heyyy wots happenin? This will usually invoke a:
HB: who is this?
me: u guess...i'm an actor. i'm from america. i stared in fight club, troy and oceans 11 (or wotever)

this can then lead into cocky/f shit bout who is more handsome? me or brad. ok...so i don't look like brad......who do i look like? Johnny Depp! or
the latest 007! this can lead into mundane rapport bout movies if ya aint done that yet

I like wilders idea of starting the call in mid-conversation:

HB: hello?
me:i think i just saw my upstairs neighbour on that show 'america's most wanted'
HB:what?
me:my neighbour may be a dangerous psychopath....wait what day is it? blahblah

just try to be random, like ask the chic wot she's wearin (but not first up, and don't sound creepy), or try gettin hur to describe wot she's seein. this way it will intro her to the fact that u are a visual/feeling/right side kinda guy. and lays the ground work for NLP type routines. go by feel tho, some chicks aren't very imaginative, and if ya push it it won't work.

Juggler offers an alternative, suggesting dat whoever answers the phone , announce who you are, "Hi this is deadman, is Sumali there?' His theory being that this shows you are proud and confident to be you. and even if the target doesn't answer, you should launch straight into a routine and establish rapport with the SPAM (or maybe her mum???). He says don't be in a hurry because this shows that you feel u are not worthy of the persons time and is a lack of confidence.

Juggler when the targets housemate answers:
"So wot's yr name? 'm not coming onto u or anything, as far as i kno u could have 3 eyes and green skin, but has anyone eversaid u have a real sweey phone voice? blahblah

late last year i #closed a HB at the gym, when i called hur in a few days she was having lunch with friends...this threw my game way out, and i lamely said i'd call later. then when i called her again she was teaching a private student...once again i fucked up and meekly said i'd call back. the moral here is dat ya gotta be prepared for any shit. in hindsight i shoulda been a bit cocky and forceful:

HB: i'm busy having lunch with friends
me:excuse yrself so we can chat
HB:sorry, i really can't do that.
me:never mind....put one of them on and let me explain everything

of course it's unlikely she would, but at least u keep ya alpha status. the other option is to say somethin like:

"...tell them ya got a stomach ache, and we'll meet for coffee in 30mins."

the whole point is to take it for granted that she would rather be with u than hur friends. telling hur u can meet in 30mins, even if ya can't, signals spontaniety.

i haven't mentioned anything bout when to call and shit like that, as it's pretty straight forward, and i personally always prefer to bring the call to an end myself, as most playas will.

.....nuff said
dm