Well I haven't posted on here in along time, the reason being because my life is starting to kick in overdrive. There is tons of work out there for me and money is power. Also this forum can really no longer help me as I really have gotten out of the habit of canned lines and routines. Sure they are fun when I am bored, but they are just not me. It doesn't flow well into my natural game.

The whole f-close with a random nussie is no longer fun for me. The game has lost it's meaning. One nighters or even mulitple nighters just isn't for me anymore. Sure it's fun while you are having sex but afterwards I still feel the same... just with a higher score then the night before.

I am young and want to go out and get drunk and make stupid mistakes. I don't want to have to pick up a girl and work some game on her. I am doing this my way and so far it is has worked everytime. So for all you people who were here when I first started, you can PM me or even add me to your MSN. For those of you who do not even know me and have just started out... Don't get too obsessed with the game, and just remember to have fun.

Better then the Rest,
Jesse, aka Shaft

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understand what you mean exactly myself im not what you would call regular game im using game for social staus where i come from im the prince of my town everyone konws and im popular with women and men alike in my opinion game shold only be used for socail status its a mean to an end once your in with a certain group of people who are hi the social ladder over groups open up to you and the only way to be except by these groups is being approved by women

I can draw a line with that too.
Sometimes I feel like the game is all I think about.
I do though balance the nights I go out gaming and the nights I go out just to enjoy life with my friends.

That is an important thing to do.

Make a balance in your life , remember that you also have a family , studies/work and friends.

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Yep. Back when I was an AFC I had a girlfriend leave me because I didn't have any balance between her and my friends. I pretty much just wanted to hang out with her all the time. She taught me a fine lesson.

I woke up this morning after a night of semi sarging and a date during the day. It seems at night I'm not getting as much sleep as I usually do because I'm waking up every two hours to read a txt message from a girl or see if this certian girl texted me.

I feel that way to I haven't been in the game long I got into it because it is fun and but sometimes it feels empty. I find myself going out being able to get a woman or at least her number every night if I wanted but I still find myself just wanting that one woman and I think I've found her but she isn't over her old bf yet and is like I want to be friends blah blah blah that is the most annoying feeling ever so I find myself still playing the game no matter how empty it feels because I figure if I can't be with the one I want why not be with as many women as I can. I know I dont want to be just friends with her I also know I have one-itis bad and this sucks.

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The idea of becoming a PUA is metaphorically similar to choosing the lifestyle of a crack head. Devoting your life fully to one particular phenomenon of it. Life just isn't all about one aspect whether it be sex, money, fun, work, getting high, learning; its about all of them together. Anyone who thinks that 'The Game' will fill the little hole in their hearts because they aren't getting laid is a fool. There is nothing wrong with going out and hunting for women, but there is no need to habitually do it, its just not natural and safe for that matter. Women will not make any of your lives complete, just as money and power will not make shafts life complete or mine for that matter. But still I will chase them. Bottom line is, lighten up fellas the game isn't empty nor is it a waste of your time. Your just looking at it the wrong way...stop letting sexual approval from women make you the man that you are. If you do, you'll never be anything more than a mold of another persons perception.

Well I am out of the game but I though I would post on here again. Methuselah is right, as for money and power currently I have both of those, as do I have woman. But as for being complete, that I am not. He gives a very good point about the Game and filling holes. I thought it would. I had an emptiness in my heart, that I though gaming women and getting laid would fill, that never worked so I drank more and had more sex. Still nothing seemed to fill the hole, I still am not complete. As for why am not complete, I could tell you but then I would have to kill you. Life is all about balance. If you haven't read up on the pyramid then do so.

Life is too short to be obsessed with one thing ... or anything for that matter. Go out and have fun, I am not saying give up gaming. But take a break from it for awhile... live your life, get drunk, read a book other then stuff on PUA, go for a walk, otherwise you are not complete and will never be complete ... just a one man band.... and they don't rock at all.

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-Shaft

Wow Shaft long time...

Nothing else to said, I'm glad you posted and I'm glad you opened up and told us how you feel.

"Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need. We're the middle children of history, man. No purpose or war. We have no Great War. no Great Depression. Our great war's a spiritual war...our Great Depression is our lives."

We are in the search of happiness and we all hope one day we will be complete and we hope one day we can fill up this emptiness that sometimes we feel.

BE HAPPY

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