i have started dating two women during the past couple of weeks. one of them i sarged at a bar and the other i met in one of my classes. i have been meeting up with them for drinks. one of them i pick up because she doesn't have a car and the other one will meet at the bar. when the bill comes to the table the girl will always pull out her purse and offer money. unlike most guys that say no, i just tell them how much the bill is and how much she should give me. this has worked on both women. one women i fuk closed and the other i kiss closed. i have a couple questions. the first is should i continue making the girl i f*** closed to pay for her own drinks or should i reward her. the second is that i plan on doing this with many girls in the future. do you think girls will go along like these first two have or do u think girls will find this disrespectful?

first off, almost all women are gana pull out their wallet at the and of something even if they know you're gana pay, just to be polite. But what i usually do in this situation is take turns paying. its ok to split the bill at first but they may start to get a little annoyed. but this is a touchy subject just because alot of women vary just because of the way they were raised. i have one friend who refuses to let a guy pay for her while i have another friend who doesn't consider it dating unless the guy pays, not cause shes a bitch, but just cause thats what she was taught.
But the safe way i usually go is, at the end of what ever you do i say
"I'll get it this time" (as you take the check) the key words are "this time" and make sure thats the part she hears cause it lets er know that your not always gana be paying and keeps you from falling into the "wussy" category of all the guys that always pay for everyhting thing and end up getting dumped.
this approach is alot more personal too, but the side effects of it could end up making them more into you in a boyfriend sense.
good luck

-Cue

In my opinion i would say start paying... I agree with "Cue Waters" women are always going to pull out there wallets and offer to pay expecting the guy to say, "Oh Please, dont be silly".

A really good friend of mine always payed for the guy he was with, and she always kept on telling me how much that would reduce/take away that want she had for him.

IMO... if you dont care about where it goes with her and if it ends then continue on letting her pay, but if u want here still interested cover the bill.

I agree that you should offer to buy and when she says "no, how much do I owe" tell her she can get the next drink for the two of you with a little smirk. It guarantees another drink and, perhaps, that drink will be moved onto the next f-close night. As men, we need to stop women from thinking they can go out and have men buy them everything.