I realized sometimes my jelousy really screws up my game sometimes. How can I smash this? I saw a book about jelousy and how it came about, maybe I should read that.

I know im not the onlyone who has had this problem here. what other ways?

No, surely you are not. Best thing is this - think about jealousy. Is she using it to draw you closer? Then YOU have her - no need for jealousy. Is she doing it because she likes the other guy? ONE-ITIS ALERT!!! She is just another super-sexy female, you will meet a lot of them. Best thing is to go out and sarge - I know, an old cliché. But it works. And, when she sees you with another girl -- no matter how beautitful or ugly she is -- she'll think about it.

You can try tapping or self-hyposis. It works. Just relax.

Carpe diem

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

Ive been developing a concept, and I think a great idea would be to start sarging as many girls as you can and have them lined up for dates ASAP. Than think about the concept of jealousy and know that its not important due to all your success you have. Lower a persons value, by visualizing them, than making up a story about that person, EVEN if you don't know them.

'Oh that’s Garry, and he’s with a chick thats finally giving him a brake, poor guy i thought hed never get a girl.'

Now you’ve lowered his value and her value~ You can really go deep and play more with it, see where it goes. That’s kind of what i do in a club full off people. I genuinely make my mind know everyone, and lower everyone’s social value and that diminishes my fear of approach. So it can be used for allot of things.

Make your mind set something like ' I really don't have the time to bother with that bullshit, because i got hb's waiting for me '.

Start to analysis social dynamics, and why some people get the girl, what quality a girl would see in that person. And understand it, as the principle for why that guy is with her. Than think about the million qualities you have learned that you can offer, and simultaneously lower her and his value even more.

You’ll feel less jealous when you realize that she’s pretty easy anyway. Once you have that mind set you can go in that set and totally blow the guy out. Befriending him first of course! If you don't want to do that, just keep the line clear and focus on the important issue, and thats knowing social dynamics and why they work.

Let me know how this advice works out for you dude.
Tell me if that idea of mine helped out.

~Impact

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

I like that mindset.

My problem is I realized I've always been a jelouse/controlling person.... Haahaa... thats hard to admit and embarassing. I've been "dating" two girls at the moment, one has a boyfriend and the other crushes on any "cute" boy she sees when she is out. I get jelouse at the fact that she has a boyfriend, I want her all to myself, but I cant break up a relationship If Im not going to date this girl... just couldnt do it

The other girl finds any boy we see while we are out with her friends godly attractive. What mostly pisses me off Is I know 100% I'm better looking then any of these guys, if she saw me in place of them (as if she didnt know me) she would obsest about my looks too. It just irks me that she doesnt talk to her friends about me like that, after all we do hook up at the end of the day.

I need to re-frame my jelousy. Maybe try to wrap it with confidence through NLP like David D suggests. Id like to develope the attitude where when girls are talking about other boys I wont be offended and can joke with them, instead of getting upset inside than using my body language to show im not upset.