The subject pretty much tells the story. Got introduced by a friend Saturday night... met her... dismissed myself to "hang w/ friends"... friend told me to 'go for it'.... return 30 mins later.. buy her a drink... convo.... crafty kiss close... a couple makeout kisses.... talk about hanging on Tuesday... get the #...

Sunday afternoon... txt... "nice hanging w/ you last night... u still recovering?... i know i am" (i got drunk)..

No response.

Now.... do I call tomorrow (Monday)... or wait until Tuesday?

Additionally... I think I'm ok if she answers... my fear is she doesn't answer and then I have the voicemail dilemma. I don't even think I'm THAT interested in the girl but more intrigued by the game I've been crafting. I'm 27 and she's 21... easily a 8.5HB.

Tips? Thanks guys!

Ah, well i think because you kissed her, she feels like shes now been too easy. And thats not the type of person she wants to portray herself as.

Id send a msg saying, 'Omg who plays that song, you spin me right round baby, right round???' Ive been looking for it everywhere.. ' If she doesn’t reply just move on, and next time don' t hurry to kiss a girl, and dude don’t deal with the answer machine/voice mainly. And don't worry if you don’t get a response, forget it. Alot more girls out there man!

~ Impact

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And mate dont be texting her the next day, wait awhile let her think bout you!

don't sweat it bro, call her on tuesday and don't ever text the next day, in fact don't text a girl until she has texted you. its just gay and beta-male-ish. if you have something to say to her, call until its "safe" to text things to her (further in relationship)...

if you call and she doesn't pick up don't leave a message, i never do. most people will call a number back that they don't recognize because they are curious anyway.

Good points guys. I just think the problem with txt message is that you never can really tell how comfortable people are using it as a means of communication. It can be perfect if effectively used though. Oh well.... I'll wait 'till Tuesday and call. If she doesn't call back I'll DTB and move on.

I always thought text messages were a more nochalant way of contacting a girl.. I use it all the time.
But now I realize it's probably not..

What a jerk that makes me.. :S

But seanjhon since she didn't answer I wouldn't even bother calling..

Contacting her twice makes you her bitch and its always bad in my experience..

So... I called today and she answered. She sounded ridiculously sick (like she was hacking up a lung...haha). I talked w/ her for a minute or two and said, "hope you didn't give me ebola the other night..." and told her I'd call her later. I guess we'll see how things go...