I was hanging out with a true natural last night and this guy was soo

good, we went to a concert and he got the guitarists/ singer's number i'm
afraid if i say the name of the band.. someone might put some puzzle pieces together and figure out who i am.



what made him soo successfull is that he was clearly the fastest thinker in the room. everything said he had a witty reply....FAST like simplly reacting without even thinking...



I'm also going to pick over this guy's mannerisms one at a time in an effort to understand why this guy was that good:


1.) totally polite to the waitress. (we are talking pleease loud and clear

until he didnt get what he wanted, then he said: "BRING IT TO ME!" in a

strong joking voice.


2.) He was very openly sexual, he constantly made jokes about his penis

and constantly touched the area around it, even put his hands in his

pants at times yada yada.


3.) His posture was like his sholders were square but, you know how most people either slouch forward or stand up straight? its hard to explain but his was relaxed leaning back....

4.)He said exactly what he was doing in a very clear concise manner.


5.) did the best job amogging in the history of the world for example during the concert I moved around a lot and

he: "hey look stand there or stay here.."..."PICK ONE"

me: "I will stay here"

he "NO! go stand over there!

Me: *confused went over there*

see?

6.) Became the center of a circle when he wanted in! clearly understanding the principles of a circle. its a group of people already involved in a conversation, but sometimes some dont contribute as much to the circle as others. the circle is closed, no room to fit one more. so he would simply find the weakest link. go over to him and tap their shoulder getting them to look away from the center of the circle so they would turn, and he would move in.

did it to me twic:

1.) I was in a seat he desired. came up to me with a piece of grass, tickled the back of my neck knowing I would get up in fear he was ganna hurt me because I didnt know what was ganna happen. then took my seat.

(the whole reasons these ploys worked for him is because the subject was distracted by whatever he was using and by the time the target noticed (if the target noticed) ( 99% of the time they dont! They just think he was being playful...but I noticed) he took their position it was too late.

2.) I was giving a blank stair and he waved right in front of my face knowing I would look away when he did.


end of that

7.) and the absoulte last thing he did was he noticed everything, was completely thoughtful of everyone "oh gee am I in your way?!?" but never casually would move out of her way would make it seem like he was giving a conscious effort E.g: crouching so they would see he was doing something for them.

8.)made them feel important for doing things for him so they would do

more things for him. he used compliments as rewards for people doing

things for him like if the waitress SIMPLY ASKED him if he wanted more

water he would say aww your soo sweet but in like a joking manner




its a really long post i'm not sure if anyone's ganna read it but just throwin these things out there!

I'm am trying to backwards engineer a friend of mine too. He sounds very similar to your friend. I think that their mannerisms and techniques is only half of their secret. I've notice that their internal self-worth is off the charts. When they sarge, they truely believe they are more important than anyone else. They are fearless because they view everyone as pawns, and they enjoy doing it. They live for the attention and excitement of the hunt. There is much more to "the natural" than most PUAs give them credit for.

kalel we might be talking about the same guy lol.

this seems like an easy attitude to acquire, its not hard to think about yourself and only do and say things that make you look good. hmm food for thought.