Ok I don't really use negs myself, but I thought of this one and thought I'd post it on the forum incase some other guys were struggling for one. It isn't field tested bc, well I'm a girl and I'm not going to test it on another girl. Let me know what you think...


You: "You know what I just noticed?"
Her: "What"
You: "Your right ear is a little bit bigger than your left ear! (touch her ear--or if you arent comfortable just touching pretend like you are measuring it with your fingers for her to see) It's okay though, I'll just talk to you from your right side so you can hear me better "

Nah, it sounds to complicated. A neg for me is something that comes from the situation. Some scripted negs are fine but I prefer to just do the cocky-funny and the negs just find their way in there automatically. Maybe skip the measuring thing and it is a bit smoother.

Thanks for the thoughts dude! Yeah I'm not much for scripted stuff myself...just thought of it for guys who arent comfortable with a natural game yet. But that makes sense...if they are nervous they may need something more simple if it can be simplified

I kinda like it. It's pretty harsh though and would make the girl feel really self conscious, so if I were to use it I would follow it up with a compliment "but that cute little button nose makes up for it."

I like it B... I would tweak it though because this could allow for some really close kino.

"I just noticed something... hmm.... "
then grab her ear and rub the lobe a bit ( rubbed the right way she is putty) then grab the other...
"Your one ear lobe is slightly bigger than the other."
she may be kind of offended... then say...
"do you hear different from each ear"
then get really close and say something in one ear like "testing testing"
then slowly jump to the other side of her and keep your face really close to hers...
whipser something very sexy in the other ear....
"wow, your skin is really soft" in a sexy tone....
look her in the eyes
go in for the kiss... and make sure not to forget the ears....

my .02

CK

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In most instances I would NOT use that neg on a girl. It is the PUA's duty to make a woman feel like a woman. She is beautiful, feminine, lively, submissive, and a mystery.

Making her feel self-conscious about her body is not something a PUA should do. Sure, you can tease her about something she's wearing, but if you don't make her feel physically comfortable around you, there's no way in hell she's going to take her clothes off in front of you.

Given that a guy has already gone pretty far into the kino escalation, I actually kinda like CK's version of it, though. He makes up for the lack of making her ears feel beautiful with several other things.

negs should be natural it should flow not memorized

Personally, I don't believe in using "negs". Negs usually just end up insulting someone especially ones that say something about physical appearance. I don't believe that in order to be successful with beautiful women you need to "bring the woman down a few notches" which I feel is the intention of the "neg". I think playfully teasing someone's behavior is a better approach.

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

Chief raises an important point here. You should neg things that she can easily change. The size of her ears can not be changed without surgery so it is better to neg clothing or faces she makes or the way she mispronounces a certain word etc.

If a girl tells you that you are too ugly for her you give her the finger and walk away but if she tells you that you act like a 5 year old you change it instantly and keep the conversation going. Basically, you have to give her the chance of winning you over.

I'm not too sure, it sounds a little harsh. If it was me, I'd be very offended. For me, a person's actual appearance is out of bounds while negging, their clothes, etc., yes but not actual physical appearance.

well if it was a HB10 then negs that are lighter than this is fine. This one i find to be kinda insulting.. it would make the person hate their ears if they do believe that it is not symmetrical. I personally like CK version of it. Have you field test that yet? with this routine? well i have a feeling that kiss close will work more than 80% of the time.

Nah, i havent tried. The idea just came from B's neg.... I believe it would work really really well though...

CK

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