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| Dizzler | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 5:13 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:48 am Posts: 215 | | You know it, it sucks, first time it's happened to me. The problem is this isn't just some random girl I sarged at a party. We have a couple classes together (college), one of them today at 1. We met at orientation hit it off, and she gave me all the signals. So one night as we were leaving a party she walking next to me I grabbed her arm pulled her around and tried to kiss her. wether it was smooth or not ( it was smooth) all she said was " I have a boyfriend". Earlier that night I was talking to her roommate and her roomate said that they have talked about me alot.
I dont know what to do in this situation, move on im guessing
but any advice is appreciated
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| The-candy | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 8:55 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Jun 24, 2008 2:37 pm Posts: 20 | | remmeber ur a grea8 guy and u totally respect that she has a boyfriend and dosent want to kiss u ... give her a speech about it
then throw in the kicker "ever though hed never find out and whatever happens in (wahtever place ur in) stay in (said place) , look in her eyes and if she holds contact u can try to go for it
cant say 4 sure that this works but i used it once on a girl i really liked that had a bf
another thing is i got her to admit she really likes both of us and she cant help it if her emotions steer her that way
warning .. if this dosent work she may think ur an asshole... just remmeber ur frame is that u actually do care (but u care more about how u guys totally feel it and its wrong to fight it)
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| elek | PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2008 9:23 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Mon Mar 31, 2008 11:36 pm Posts: 27 | | The most likely scenario is you haven't built enough comfort yet. Many girls will use the boyfriend-card as an easy-out if you've pushed too fast. Act like nothing has happened, and continue doing your thing.
If she fires it again, you can either back off a bit, or use "ME TOO" and attempt again. Ha ha.
Good luck! _________________ Peace,
------Elek
elektro-fied.blogspot.com
"Anyone can let life pass them by but the successful people are the ones who are always challenging themselves to get to that NEXT LEVEL."
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