You know its strange, I came back to this forum, and every time I come back I'm so much further evolved then before. Everyone here is practising routines, and things, i dont even know what i say to women anymore, I just feel its right, and i do it.

It feels odd reading all this "AMOG practice thread" amog practice thread? haha, i mean you can't prepare for every scenario and even if your spending time here preparing that’s getting you in a logical state of mind, thats not where you should be, especially when you talk to women. If you really are falling apart then ask yourself, are you trying to use the routines to get the girl or are you confident in yourself and you throw out a few routines for fun?.. see its not about these routines, it was hard for me when i first entered this community, i wanted to get my hands on everything as fast as possible when in fact for me at this stage in my life to assimilate even 1 routine as simple as a neg a form of neg, like shed say something my reply would be,

Your so cute, so when do i get to put you in my teddy bear collection?

to do it congruently ..

argh so hard to put in words forward to you. Its not just the routine, that’s such a small part of it, its your body how you move, your energy your smile, the way you look in her eyes and you tell her I want you, I’m just talking but feel me I’m here I’m a man i want to love you, feel me im real, im genuine you cant resist me, nothing you do can get in the way of how i am, you cant stop me, put your arms around me and love me, I’m the only presence in your world, the only thing that matters, I’m the supreme deal, and i will make your craziest desires true, give into me you cant win no matter how hard you resist. In a very cheeky playful passionate strong forward sharp powerful way. That’s all your eyes, your body your touch your hands must communicate elegance grace, strength, that you can protect her, lead her, love her. It also must communicate your the dominant centred force in the universe and you’ve been that way for a while so its nothing special that’s your god given role in life, and its as natural to you as drinking a can of coke.

Anyway I wanted to share that to you. Game is great, but game is only great if there is the unique and powerful individual behind it to play it. Game played by a person who is still discovering himself will falter.

Notice also how i write these posts, note the words i use, you never see me use things like

"if your a looser no girl will want you, you’ll just creep her out". My wording is part of my mindset, almost like a selection of things i choose to use like colours to articulate a picture, you must also use the right colours for the wrong colours will paint the wrong portrait, and that’s a portrait of yourself, so you don’t want to screw it up.

So much knowledge i wish people just listen to, listen to what I'm saying, don't just read this post and go off asking how to run demonstration of value routines, that stuff is just for smoothing out interactions its not really about the interaction itself. You could just as easily smile and talk about nonsense and have the great body language tone, and internal workings and itll get you anywhere just as fast if not faster because it will come off as genuine.

All you people who are effected by the initial approach i employ you to think about this, and its a great line mystery says that sums it right up.

"you don't get in a good mood before you get to your destination, you get to your destination and you gradually get in a good mood there".

That’s aimed towards everyone who stays at home and reads.

The reason your at home and the reason your not going out is because your mind is trying to balance out your body and comfort you. It doesn’t like going into uncertain situations with uncertain results, so when you take time off from the game, go right away. You can think about it, but go do something fun and real. Watchout for any bad routines you do and autocorrect yourself constantly.

If you take too much time off your game then you’ll be autocorrecting yourself often, note that and get back into it. That’s your signal which tells you, hey I'm forgetting too much lets come back.

Learn to be genuine and real, don’t be like these pickup artist who are on fire one night the next night they are crying because they forgot some routines and a set failed.. argh screw that!

Hope you guys understand this.. damit i want to drill it into your heads, especially you new people. Learn to be a normal genuine real human being first, discover yourself, if it means looking at YouTube videos or documentaries or something.

In order to find myself I had to look at south Africa YouTube videos, I used to live there, I had a look at Bulgarian soccer as i was born in Sofia, and then discovered my passion in cars as all men who are European tend to have it, i went out focused on myself, my avatar, i didn’t really copy anyone. I just grabbed what suited me as a person and allowed me to be free.

Clothes play a crucial role to, if you wear rubbish clothes you will feel shit too, its the type of energy our mind associates bad clothes with, as opposed to real good fashionable trendy stylish things. You have to be your best all the time, and that's very hard, i don't mean just emotionally and physically but spiritually also. Musicians and actors always look good for the cameras because they never know who is filming and when. The journey is a tough one and you will come across obstacles that will throw you off for a while, but you will rediscover the courage to come back and evolve over and over and over. Don’t perform for anyone, your on this journey for yourself, and if you can share that with others great, if you can’t then your wasting your time.

You are a human being, you will have good times and bad times, you are normal. We are all the same, no one is better then you in any way. The sooner you understand and embrace the truth of humanity to a certain point the more free on the inside you’ll be.

Work out, and try to understand yourself and every step that you take and be mindful of modifying it suit your final goal. Envision what you want and focus so that every energy spend leads to the goal.

Words by themselves don’t do this post much justice, but i hope sincerely that you people can fill some of the gaps.

Check out the video below its cool
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Although i agree, i also disagree.
Yes, infield is greater than all. I also feel inner game is greater than all, anyone can recite canned things, but only a PUA can make it work.

However, if your an AFC you cant go right out and try try try, since you will fail time after time and that will only destroy your confidence. There is nothing wrong with being prepared. Stuff like the AMOG practise thread, i dont need to practise, Alphas dont worry me. But it is an issue for other people and through seeing how people act to it will help them learn.
Humans learn by observing, then doing. Very few people are able to do it prefect first time. I have a lot of respect for people who come to learn, once you realise you need to learn i think you have accepted who you are and that you need to improve.

I could go on, but it is generally a good post many people could learn from.

Madals

as the post above, i agree and disagree, i would always have problems getting amoged, i would react to it like a challenge and have to prove myself to them thinking thats how to make myself look good...it isnt, i learned how and why you shoulod be unresponsive and a few cool lines to deal with amogs and im the better for it.

but criticisms aside, i would say this is usefull reading for any pua's who want a perspective on how you should play the game

slick

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Beautiful post Impact! I agree with your sentiments about making these concepts part of who you are. Like Madals said, you may have to practice a bit, but the goal is internalization; I think you guys are saying the exact same thing, as you did mention that you have to find yourself and your own rythm through whatever means neccessary, be it watching youtube videos, reading something written by Tony Robbins, or something by Mystery.

What we're talking about here, is taking inner game to the next level, where you are not only confident in yourself, but happy with who you are as a person, to the point that you no longer feel you need to rely on scripts and that being yourself is what is truly attractive.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

This reminds me very much of some brilliant advice a drama teacher once told me "anyone can act a part, but to be believeable you must become the part"

Basically you will get away with faking it, but to be brilliant you must be it.

Madals

Constantin Stanislavski was the original modern practitioner of that theory. You can link his two different systems to the rehearsal naturalistic acting, outside to inside and inside to outside, to that of inner game and outer game and using one to improve the other.

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I love this video, mainly because this singer is one of my favourites but more so because he explains the rest period so well after the song. Your mind does something to calm you down and put you in a comforting zone with whatever task you like doing in order to refresh your priority. Almost like coming back after a brake you become more sharp and aware.

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Great post Impact. Also, great video. I think it implies exactly what you want to say.

Another awsome post! im reading your work mate its money!

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I give you 5 stars... I'm glad you are back writing Impact!!

i can see that being away helped you a lot.

It is a process we all go through, we need time for us, to think, to internalize so much things... and then you come with these great things, that come in the purest way a post can come...

Once again Great post and I'm glad you're back here!!!

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Thanks for the bump, I read it again and this is def one of the best posts on the entire forum. Cheers!