so, its an old hit and run from both sides
we have some intimacy, but when we are together with friends we kinda just tease, neg and shit test each one out
which is kinda of a bummer, cause I'd rather isolate her and escalate that tension into something more interesting in this case

because of that, we had our sedudction going in some kind of circle, we meet, have something going on, then it colds, we get away, come back

2 weeks ago I was talking to her on msn and asked her if wanted to lunch with me anyday, she prompt said "yes, I do =]"
she travelled last week so we moved to this week, I think itll happen on thursday and Im my mind, I think we can finnaly have some time together alone...

what do you guys thinks are the odds of this, LJBF, pure attraction, Im golden... I dont know for sure!! plz help :p

This is something you can do to esculate the residual tension (and there is tension there). Now I use the word TENSION not with any positive or negative connotations. I like at it as being neutral. I am a firm believer that if you can illicit a STRONG enough emotion from a woman (whether it be love, hate, lust, anger, sadness), then that's when you are truly golden. But lets just worry about the current task ahead.

In Order:



SAM Theory


Out of the Blue... Ask her if she's ever heard of SAM Theory?

Tell her that SAM Theory states that when two people, who know nothing about one other, meet under comfortable circumstances, they tend to want to get to know each other better on a social level. Even if they have nothing in common, the vibes that their body gives off, tells something totally different. Then ask her if she knows how to prove SAM Theory.

She'll either say "no" or "how?"

Say slowly: Smile.... At..... Me (SAM), which will produce your simle. then give her a kiss on the cheek for being so receptive.

Then you tell her that you have something important to tell her, she'll say "What?" You then say, "Shit, I'll just tell you later."
NO MATTER how much she presses you, change the subject completely.



NEXT
When you reach your next uncomfortable silence (this is what I used when in secluded area), tell her "OH, I remember what I had to tell you!"

{When I did this live IT WAS TOTALLY improv}

Esculate
I tell her to close her eyes. To picture a very strong emotion. Not love or lust, nothing like that, but a very strong feeling that makes her feel lots of energy. What's that feeling called? She says, "Its called Happy."
(Now remember, I am totally making this shit up in the moment).
I tell her to picture that energy right in the middle of her eyebrows. Picture that energy flow down her face and hit her throat. Next let it flow to her chest and down all the way to her "happy place" (she smiles!). From there, down her legs to her butt (whice I squeeze), all the way up her back and let it radiate up and down her arms (the whole time I'm building kino by caressing her arms and legs). Picture now that energy back in your face and let it become a very tiny little ball. That energy is now on the tip of your nose. Can you feel it? She shakes her head yes. I then lean in and kiss close. She breaks out in a smile and begins laughing. I ask her if her felt the energy explode out of her pores. She tells me a million times yes.

Honor.