i know this is my first post here in awhile but its a question my fellow local pua's and myself couldn't answer. I remember the great advice and help everyone here gave me and decided to come back to the forum.

My question is are we just kidding ourselves.... are we womanizers?

i was called this by a girl i have been friends with for a long time and it cut me deep. At first i dismissed what she said as nonsense but the longer i thought about it the more it bothered me. Is what we do basically spinning the words around to justify our actions? could what we are doing be wrong?

maybe i need to re-read one of my pu books and get back to the basics lol.

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yours truly. fitzy

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You are only a womanizer if you think that way. If you view women as lesser beings and just tools for improvement. There are plenty of PUAs who truly love women, and that is not a womanizer.

If you respect and love women then you are no womanizer.

Basics... Respect yourself as a strong, confident and well grounded MAN. If you want you can wear a pink shirt - why because you can and you are well centered and confident. This is who you have been groomed to be and you are focused on being the good at what you do because you RESPECT YOURSELF.

We RESPECT women and would not do any thing disrespectful even when it comes to sex. If she says no we back off! easy - plenty of fish in the sea because we DONT HAVE AN EGO PROBLEM.

IF you are questioning your actions take a leaf out of Dr Phill's book. He was interviewing some PUA's and then asked the female audience what they thought of the PUA's actions to be more attractive to women. Comments ranged from good to bad then he asked the best question I have ever heard to shit test the women in the audience. He asked "how long does it take you to get ready when you go out? comments ranged from 30min to an hour or more and then he said "dont you think you are being pretentious! Spending an hour to attract someone! how is that different to what these guys are doing"

So you see you are being attractive as you can be, they are being as attractive as they can be so you are now on a level playing field. Women like to believe they are being selective and the minute you are on their turf they will feel intimidated.

Be confident be strong!

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