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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:17 am 
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Its happened a few times, as im sure it has to many of you, that you get some chicks number and they flake on you:

either they wont return the call, or their phone is never" on.

Ive read that the reason for this is due to insufficient attraction/rapport created in conversation.

but
1. how can you avoid getting flaked?
2. how do you create enough rapport in quick situation, eg when shes on break or waiting for the bus?

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2007 11:12 pm 
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answers!
1) dont be boring! -- remember she doesn't matter that much! if she doesn't call you, then it's her loss. It's your responsibility, to make sure she realises that u r infact a hell of a lot more interesting than anyone else.
2) Build rapout, in short by mimicking body language. This sounds weird, and feels quite unatural, but it creates a slightly deeper level to the relationship already. I'll go into this in length on a thread another time, but if you're actually interested in this sort of thing (ie. NLP, the basics of speed seduction), read Unlimited power, by Anthony Robbins. This is essentially a beginners guide to NLP, although a bit of a hard read.
FYI.. I'm not a speed seducer, but i think that small use of NLP can help in some circumstances.
Hope I've helped.
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 1:19 am 
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answers!
1) dont be boring!
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thanks for the post.....today it was raining and i saw a chick under an umbrella.
I caught up and just went under it with her, and just teased her about not giving me anough cover, and how her slow walking was gonna make me get to class late, etc.

Thats what being "not-boring" meant to me, being spontaneus and acting as if you already knew them.

And i will surely check out that Anthony Robbins book.

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 21, 2007 6:52 pm 
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Bitchin!!!
I think thats what's called an epiphany? I'm glad I helped, in any small way.
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