So I met this girl. She is a beautiful girl that moved her from the west coast. We started dating and it has been good until today there was a little set back. She had started dating me after her ex broke up with her like a a month before hand. She told me she wants me to know that she isn't over him but she wants to continue hanging out with me and getting to know each other better. She said she told me because she doesn't want to get to deep and crush me. Any ideas how maybe her dwelling thoughts might be able to be shifted so it could really help the relationship?

These are my speciality.

You need to give her space and time, not matter how much you do like her.

Dont pressure her. Try not to force anything to happen, just let time by.

Trust me, and i really mean this.

Control your feelings, dont get needy. Be the man on whom she interested, by still acting the way you've been acting from the start. If you wont do this, whole thing will be over faster than you can say "ouch". And then u'll fall into one-itis.

Trust me.
Been there done that. Never learned.

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thanks much that seems very simple but in practice a bit difficult to hold back just enough

I agree w/ Mr.White. Follow his advice before you regret it - Ive made a mistake like that in the past. Trust me, it's good advice to follow.

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yes it is advice i will heed. We were supposed to see each other last night but I called her andshe said he had a not so good talk with her ex and she was just gonna make food and crawl into a ball and goto sleep. So I guess I shouldn't call for a bit. Ahh this sucks its like a 180 degree turn randomly

ey bro.....listen to MR white give her sum space....be aloof brother
care but dont be to caring at same time if u know wat i mean make her chase u in the end support her wen she needs u but b careful not to fall into the friend zone....listen to her and connect to how she is feeling and then whilst dis is all happenin u should build up some chemistry take her out a few times so that her mind is not on her ex but on u and her
hope dat was sum help

Dont stress yourself too much.

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- Mr. White

You cant win, if you wont try.