There's this girl i saw yesterday at the beach. We used to go to the same high school, about 2 years ago and would make some intense eye contact. she had a bf, and i had a gf so we never even got to talk, but when we passed each other we would make the most intense eye contact!! She was just my type! i would rate her as a solid 9 or even a 10, though none of my friends seemed to agree at all... which is good since it increases the odds. I could tell she was interested but i wouldn't want to screw neither of our relationships...
But as I was saying, I saw this girl yesterday, and we just had one of those long poweful eye contacts! fuck, I almost fell in love!

Later that day a friend of hers gave me her e-mail and encouraged me to go talk to her. I also found her at hi5.com (similar to myspace), but feel kind of lost on the approach since:
1- she isn't a total stranger, therefore i can't just not give a fuck
2- there should be no place for negs since the attraction has already been built, and there should be not much of a shield to break.
3- i just find her so fuckin perfect that all i can think of saying is "you're so fuckin beautiful!"
4- I'm really confused because i don't know whether i should treat her as a hb9 or as hb7 or whatever the other guys see her as.

How would you approach her?
A-should i just add her on messenger, or write some photo comment or instant message on hi5?
B-should i just overwhelm her by telling her how beautiful i find her (she is just a 9/10 inside my mind and feels attracted to me, so it might just work), or should i make regular conversation as if it was nothing?

This girl has got me feeling like I have no game.... Am I in love?

dude, you have to give no fuck, and go for it!. as mystery said:
'''first you fuck and then you become friends, the other way around doesn't work'' <-- friendship zone

some tips: just go for it, and dont ask the afc question; but what if she doesn't want me/just be friends?

sowhat. i've done it with a old girlfriend of mine she heard of a girlfriend of hers that i was a very good kisser and cute.(fuck her, i want to be sexy not cute!)i just played game, then got in for the kiss and she totally shot me down at the end because she reconsidered and wouldn't put our friendship on the risk. but i played it cool and said alright and just told her another story (kept on talking, not the afc thing like; ''ah well, than i better be going''.
i kept the flow going, now our friendship is even better because i know she doesn't wont to kiss/fuck me and i can burp/fart en tell story's about hot chicks freely

just show your balls. add her on msn, introduce yourself and if she remembers you it is a good thing if not, well.....

so add on msn, intrododuce, arrange meeting (not date!!!) , build comfort,attraction and the other shit, get phone number , date ,fuck

Dude, I can relate to this, n I just pulled out my best online pickup ever so far...
Check it out, I get this request from this chick, who happened to be the sister of this classmate from about 8 years ago, i was 10, so was my friend, watever, now Im 18, and this chick sister is 23 now,
I found out this and sent her an email
"You look like a barbie, in a cartoon version" "how are you?"
She replied back, "HAHAH noon has ever told me that! and goooood you"?

then we exchanged emails,
chat went kinda like this
She had this sexy picture of her on some booty shorts showing her belly
i said "you been eating too much"
she: haha, ure mean
me: it's ok i have too
she: haha
me: you have to cook for me
she: right
me: u know what? we r breaking up
she: we r not even together!
me: thats another reason to break up,
she: haha haha
blah blah blah blah
(on the phone now)
me: you n i would make the cutest couple ever
she: really?
me: no
she: you're mean
me: tell you what, im tired of dating girls who drink smoke or do drugs, youre not that type of girl, are you?
she: no, im not i believe blah blah blah
me: are you hitting on me?
she: haha i can't help it
me: sing me a bed song
she: why? youre leaving?
me: no, im using it as an excuse so we can sleep together
she: really now
me: u have my number, call me tomorrow, i do want u to sing me a bed song, if u dont, i'll start calling u 10 times a day
she: giggling
me: u got excited about that huh?
she: giggling
me: get serious now, i gottatell you something important, very importnat
she: (stops) what
me: haa i got you!
she: no, seriously, what is it?
me: I want you
she: what??
me: I want you... to hang the phone,,,
she: haha
me: call me tomorrow, and come see on saturday
she: ok, i'll try
me: u will call,

one day later call, two days later she was in my room, two hours later, she was in my bed

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Im glad this stuff is working out for you guys. But honestly, Internet is very afc. Your not really bettering yourself as a person, rather your typing speed in a unrealistic virtual setting. They teach it and make dvds on it because alot of the guys that come to PUA seminars can't really be helped. Like some dude with a leg problem thats been beaten as a kid.

You get my drift.
I'm going to ask brad to create you guys a Internet sub section for myspace sarges. For all you guys that are interested in it.


- Impact

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You're wrong, I think online dating is in many aspects more challenging than real dating, I'm not saying online dating is the only way to do this, but I'm SURE it has challenging aspects. When compared, the biggest difference I believe is how beautiful girls on Internet are hit, in real life it takes a lot of courage to do it, online it takes no courage, but it does take some smart thinking. If you can train your mind to think smart, then you ARE making yourself a better person.

So much for your comments.

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