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| justme16 | PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 11:46 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Apr 03, 2008 6:52 am Posts: 67 Location: California | | I notice that when i talk to people i can tell if they have higher value than me or if there just another person with not so much value. How do you talk to someone as if they have lower value than you or how do i speak to someone so they dont try to talk down on me?
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| Backfire | PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 1:20 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Aug 17, 2008 7:56 am Posts: 72 Location: Darwin, NT, AUS | | That is really all in your body language. It also comes into false time constraints (to show them that you don't care if you get their attention or not). Read up on body language a bit more. I found that Mystery's "The mystery method" was more than adequate to explain exactly how to move and all the rest. If that isn't enough for you, have a look at some of the pickups on youtube or have a look at mypuajourney.com. That dude has some pretty good control over body language now, whereas he didn't really before.
As for talking as a higher value person, you really shouldn't need to concentrate to do that. If your body language is effective enough then they usually readily accept the fact that you are dominant. But if you don't think it is your body language, try practicing some routines out loud. Record them and play them back. I find that if you have the right tonality and if YOU control the flow of conversation, then you will automatically present higher value.
Or maybe you just need to hit the streets a bit harder and practice live. It never hurts. _________________ It is only in your failures that you have any chance of success
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